Zandy

Me either but my friends always telling me that I must break my virginity

4 days, 19 hours ago

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Starfirer

Well then tell them its yr body & they must respect yr body If they can't then they aren't real friends

4 days, 16 hours ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, no one should ever make you feel pressured to have sex. Do things that make you feel comfortable and safe and surround yourself with people who respect your decisions and values.

9 hours, 25 minutes ago
Allison

Hi friend if you dont wana do things that they do.tell them dont be scared or feel sorry about they telling you.remember god has a plan.love from allison to u♥ #be comifiy♥ #ur body is worth it keep it safe♥

6 hours, 4 minutes ago
Emiky

you know other girls think cheating is something u should be proud of .No that's totally wrongly because if u are cheating is easy for u to get disease or any infaction .So girl & also guys cheating is not something u should be proud of

1 week, 1 day ago
@Baeton_29

Hy guyz I have a problem I'm participating well in class but when it comes to tests I don't know what's the problem my marks come back very low plzzz help

1 week, 2 days ago

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Michelle

Yeah ... In class some people brainstorm ideas on how to work on equations but as soon as it's test time you get confused and forget all the forms of using the equations to work out the answer

1 week, 1 day ago
Anonymous

Hy guys I'm new in this group I don't have confidence at all...I have low-self esteem sometimes I feel like I won't make it in life cause of what I've been through I really need help n mentor as well please help

1 week, 4 days ago
Anonymous

I have a lack of confidence

2 weeks, 5 days ago
marsh

hy I'm new in this group . I don't have confidence at all. I lack confidence especially for myself

2 weeks, 5 days ago

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Shaddy

Hey Marsh ... you ain't the only one with self esteem problems hun 😔

2 weeks, 1 day ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey, Marsh thanks for your comment. Low self-esteem and lack of confidence is a very common occurrence in teens and it is nothing to be ashamed about. If you're looking for articles on how to work on your confidence, you can click on the confidence tag on the website.

2 weeks ago
Anonymous

hi am new I just don't feel confident abt myself .....I just feel out of place when I'm with other pole. help!

3 weeks, 2 days ago
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grace

am 17 years and am still a virgin and i will lyk to stay lyk that until i get marrige that is my wish

3 weeks, 3 days ago
Selu

I don't have confidence at all but I'll try using your tips

1 month ago
Batgirl_3

Hey..so I just want to ask something for advice about a friendship..so I have a friend and we have been since grade 4 and every time I go and get something new at the shops or do something for myself she goes and does the exact same thing as what I've done ? I have told her that it upsets me but yet she still does it ..

1 month, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Springster, maybe your friend just admires your style. Have you heard this saying, "imitation is the best form of flattery"? Ask yourself, is this something really worth fighting over? You could see it as a chance for you to help your friend develop her own sense of style. Go shopping together, help pick clothes that will suit her. She clearly thinks highly of the way you dress.

1 month, 1 week ago
Batgirl_3

I've tried helping her go shopping but that didn't help much ...I get where you are coming from ...I got a piercing a while ago and then she went and got the same thing as me like I said I wanted a tongue ring and before I even got it she went to get it ..?

1 month, 1 week ago
Namhla

If l raise my hand they laugh at me what should l do.

1 month, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Springster, it's not about them - it's about you. Don't let anyone stop you from doing what's best for your future. You can also try talking to your teacher before or after class.

1 month, 1 week ago
Ntombizethu

Hi Guys I just want to ask what is it maybe I didn't get ma periods on February what might it be?

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Springster, don't panic. Many women experience an irregular period at one point or another in their lives. Here are a few things you need to know. 1) Your menstrual cycle begins on the first day of your period 2) The average menstrual cycle is 28 - 32 days long 3) Normal cycles can range between 21 - 45 days in young teens So it's perfectly normal to see a period show up in the beginning of the month then again towards the end.

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Anita

Its normal l also do that sometimes

1 month, 1 week ago
Zecona

Always be yourself don't fake others.. ..love yourself n choose your friends wisely

2 months ago
rosegreshams601

Hie guys I'm new here I also do this in class I'm shy around every gal So if i raise my friend they think I'm a lesbian

2 months ago

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Zecona

Well don't pay attention to what they say coz people will alwaus talk just focus on what your saying n be confident....me too I'm also new

2 months ago
Anonymous

Am always scared n shy to raise my hand in class n I want that to stop but am scared to be a laughingstocks so plz help me guyz

3 months ago

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Anonymous

Just try! Nobody's perfect after all, if people laugh at you it's natural so you shouldn't be bothered by it - wash it off and continue raising your hands. Besides, not everyone that laughs knows the right answers and/or questions to ask which makes you better for trying. Who knows, you might be right. And in this way, not only does your confidence get boosted but it will be easier for you to remember in the exams since you offered the answer/question. Try and never stop trying!v

2 months, 1 week ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hi Serah. I think Emily_Lea gave such a perfectly crafted answer and she is right. Also remember why you're at school. You're there to learn and sometimes before you learn something you make a mistake and get it wrong, that's just part of the process. Don't be too hard on yourself and don't let the fear of other people laughing discourage you from being the best student you could be. Good luck

2 months, 1 week ago
Siyasanga

Hey guyss im scared of raising a hand in class because im a voiding that thing of being a laughingstock in the classroom

3 months, 1 week ago

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LadyAdmi

The point is: you asked a question because you didn't understand, if that question makes everyone laugh then well done! Not everyone has that gift to make a dull moment in class fun- if you have the gift then use it.

3 months, 1 week ago
Kay2

Thank you so much I'll speak up, raise my hand in class and ask for help.Which i never did.

3 months, 1 week ago

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LadyAdmi

It's always good to confess with your mouth but its better to declare and show some action. And be determined

3 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

What du u do wen gals take u for a ride help a friend

3 months, 2 weeks ago
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Fortunate_Kidd

Sometimes raising your hand up in class it quite hard knowing you might be laughed at

3 months, 2 weeks ago

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Zee

Yeah I always feel like dat when I raised my hand in de classroom,I feel like i wil say an embarrassing thng nd end up being a laughing stock

3 months, 2 weeks ago