Anonymous

Hello guys I'm new I jst lost my bby n it's hard for me to cope I need advice to get back to my game I'm 18 year's old

18 hours, 25 minutes ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, thanks for reaching out to us. We know that this must be a really tough time for you, but please know that you are not alone and that there are people that you can talk to. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

16 hours, 30 minutes ago
Isipho

I'm always getting this kinda feeling but I never had anyone I trust to talk to about the things that happen to myself most of the times I struggle on my own and believe that there's God so in whatever challenge I'm facing I talk to him

22 hours, 24 minutes ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Nosipo, you are definitely not alone and there are people who you can talk to when you are feeling low. It is a normal feeling that you have been experiencing. However, you should not go through it alone. It helps to find a trusted adult, sibling, teacher or counsellor at school that you can talk to. If not, you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

15 hours, 37 minutes ago
Dynamite

Hy sprinster.... Just a while ago I was about to cut my wrists😔anger,disappointment is all I feel these days....thanks fr making me feel better. I hope that I get the right help in time

1 week, 2 days ago
nhnh

-hiiey guys I'm new here n I saw the TPC ......talking about feelings ,I've been having strange emotions n I got mood swings . .... .is it Norma l for a young teenager lyk me to smtyms feel lyk crying ,in love ,annoyed wit my siblings ,angry ,sad n I always wanna by alone in my room with out anyone nagging me ??.......plz guyz help me out❤❤

2 weeks, 4 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Nhnh, what you are experiencing is absolutely normal. During puberty your body produces hormones that may cause moods swings and this normal. If you do feel as though your mood swings are extreme then maybe you should try talking to a sibling, teacher, counsellor at school or a trusted adult.

2 weeks ago
Ayonela

I hate that gal i once had it its disgusting

1 week, 5 days ago
Manana

Hi springsters u know I don't feel great since it been the winter holidays it just so boring and I know I just don't want to go back to school it just so boring and confusing why I feel this sad it makes me wanna cry cause I feel lonely and stupid so guys help I think I am getting depressed

3 weeks, 6 days ago

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Neon

My dear friend .. Don't let the things surrounding u get the best of u .. Holidays are ment to be fun , enjoyed , and later remember , do something u love ..like I'm good at writing poetry so I started a group on WhatsApp for poets n they have made my holidays worth it. So what I'm saying do something that makes u own ur space ..remember u are ur own Smile keeper

3 weeks, 4 days ago
Boniface

In your holidays try to make something that will make u busy e.g babysitter

2 weeks ago
COOKiie

I also get this feeling I really don't know what to do I font have friends in my neighborhood only at school and I can't contact them because they don't have cellphone's ,plz help me

1 month ago
Anonymous

hey ppz I'm new

1 month ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello violaN Welcome to the Springster family.

1 month ago
thatego

Hii good people

1 month ago
Lelo

Hi Springster .. 2015 my boyfriend forced me to do an arbotion . I went ahead with it is it possibl for me to give corncive?

1 month, 1 week ago
Siphi

I think that's part of life and all you need to so just accept that thinking and mean time it will pass on. back for you is to stay strong and just let thinking goes on and you will be OK.

1 month, 1 week ago
Anonymous

I am in a relationship its been a year now and everything was going well and we were always happy until the month of our anniversary we started fighting for small things and break up and we get back together even on our anniversary we didn't spent it together as we planned and now I feel like he doesn't want me anymore coz he is not giving the same attention like before we even talk less...does he still love me or maybe he has found someone else??

1 month, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello Cutiegirl01 Thank you for sharing your story with us.It all depends on how confident you are in terms of asking him about it.It is always better to approach someone and ask them about something which is bothering you.In that case you are able to know were you stand with them.We hope that things work out for you Springster.

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Kini

I can relate

1 month, 4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Kini, remember to stay strong being keeping a good support system. Try to regularly speak to someone like your mom, a friend, relative, teacher or school counsellor.You can also always call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information

1 month, 3 weeks ago
Nicky

Sometimes I feel so alone and I feel like I have nothing around me but it is not like that there is people who care about you and you don't know

1 month, 4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

This is true Mellodene, there are plenty of people who are willing to talk to you and help you if you need the help. You just need to know who you can trust and the places you can call. Make sure to tell your friends this too and check out some Springster articles to see where many Springsters get their help from. Thanks for your comment Springster.

1 month, 4 weeks ago
Anonymous

I too would feel sad 4 no reason And it went 4 a very long time. And I started self harming because it helped my cope

2 months ago
PuzA12

I too would feel sad 4 no reason And it went 4 a very long time. And I started self harming because it helped my cope

2 months ago
Keamogetswe

I Used To Feel Sad Without Any Reason But I Now Know How To Deal With That: Feeling Sad Without No Idea Whats Wrong : I Suggest For You To Cry Alot And Calm Yourself After That You"ll Be Better

2 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Kebugile, thank you for this! It's so important to let out your emotions and express your feelings in a way that works for you. We appreciate your comment.

2 months ago
Honey

How do you deal with that?

2 months ago
candice

Hi guys im 23 of age i live with a single parent my mother ...shes a domestic worker and i had a baby at young age sometimes i just feel worthless i feel like im nothing when i look at my peers i see my self as nothing compared to them i jst feel low of myself as i will never be somthing in life ..Seeing my self helpless to my son somtimes i just wish that if i had no child but somtimes theres the feeling that keeps on telling me that oneday god will help me and my family live the life ive always dreamed of Thank you

2 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Candy, we believe things will turn out great for you too. Remember that if you are feeling stressed, down, or overwhelmed, you can always call Childline SA.They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

2 months ago
Nicky

Candice let me telling you don't have to worry god will come for you and your baby en even for your family you will living you life better just believing in god

1 month, 4 weeks ago
Chantelle

Hy Guys . I'm 17 years old . I have a heart condition . I feel so hopeless and worthless . I nolonger see the reason why i should live. I feel so alone . All my friends are distancing themselves away from me . I feel like I'm dying slowly . In November , I'm going for a heart transplant and I'm very scared . What if i die ? Please help . 😔😔😔

2 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Langazane, thank you for reaching out to us. You are so brave to be dealing with something as heavy as a heart condition. Remember you do not have to deal with this alone, there is always someone out there to talk to. It would also be a good idea to ask your doctor if there's anyone you can talk to for healthcare advice. Also, have you thought about a parent, older sibling, aunty, teacher or a professional who can offer you support? This can be very helpful. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website: ​http://www.childlinesa.org.za​, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

2 months ago
Anonymous

Hey beautiful your are a very wonderful person dnt let yourself drow in that thoughts See happiness is an inside job With or without friends u will.forever be happy u r nt going to die instead u will be fine dont worry abt friends They come.n.go dear take me as yo.friend

2 months ago
Neon

Can I be ur friend .. To love is to fulfill God's word .. Having a heart problem gives ur life a meaning that u are unique .. That u are irreplaceable .. There's no one like u n we appreciate that ..quote:" in order to be irreplaceable u have to be different " ...as I heard ur story I saw a brave , amazing gal that deserves the best of it all . don't be scared abt the heart transplant , I know from deep within my heart that ur future is bright n many more yrs await u ...we are here for u

3 weeks, 4 days ago
Samkelisiwe

Im17yearold.im.pregnant idont know what ido Sometime ithink tomake aboch myfriend try tohelp me.but.it not easy tohelp him.idecided tokillmy self..nothing ican do😭😭😰

2 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, thanks for reaching out to us. We know that this must be a really tough time for you, but please know that you are not alone and that there are people that you can talk to. This is a very important decision that you have to make - and one that will ultimately impact your life the most. You should be aware that it's important to reach out to people in our real lives. Have you thought about speaking to a counsellor at school? School counsellors are trained to deal with issues that affect children that are going through tough situations like yours, so we are sure that they can help you. If you can't, you can speak to a qualified professional from Childline SA. They're number is a toll-free line: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information. They will help you figure out what to do next and help you deal with the emotional stress that you are currently going through.

2 months, 1 week ago
Zamarr

I feel sad, lonely ,miserable at all times..and seems like nothing is helping me ..im now thinking of suicide ..

2 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Leighseighdeigh, it's normal and natural to feel sad and lonely at times.Have you thought about a parent, older sibling, aunty, teacher or a professional who can offer you support? Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on ​http://www.childlinesa.org.za​ as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

2 months, 1 week ago
Lady_N791

I don't know what happening to me.. I feel sad.. Lonely.. Lost.. Incomplete.. I'm starting to loose interest in school.. Which is not good coz I'm in matric

2 months, 1 week ago