Hey Springster...i'm new here. I also feel down sometimes and by that moment i don't feel like being around anyone, i just want to be alone and doing Absolutely nothing. I just sit there and be like i'm shocked or suprised. The moment someone get in, i lose it all. I become so angry, so Furious. And i start being rude to that particular person, i don't know why this is happening to me.
Hi Ponalo, thank you for reaching out to us and telling us your story. It's so important to talk about your feelings and express them because they are very much valid. You should try discuss these emotions with a trusted adult either from school, home, or an older relative. Otherwise you can also call Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.
Hi Ponalo, thank you for reaching out to us and telling us your story. It's so important to talk about your feelings and express them because they are very much valid. You should try discuss these emotions with a trusted adult either from school, home, or an older relative. Unfortunately we can't speak to you directly, but you can also call Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.
Thank you Gabi for the advice i really appreciate that...i'll definitely use it
Hey I'm new to the springster I have a lot of confidence and pride I tell myself I'm beautiful and rare buh my problem is that i sometimes feel useless unloved and ugly. All my friends are dating and im not and I don't see a problem with that buh sometimes I feel like I won't find someone who will love me for who i am. in result I get angry to myself and I easily get irritated to the point where I feel like I could beat up someone. I'm full of hatred and I don't see it's root I hate being around a lot of ppl bcz I feel like they are talking or watching me
Hi Springster, the important thing to know about self-confidence is that it comes from yourself and that it doesn't depend on other people. We all go through the same issue that you go through where we feel a bit ugly or not pretty enough. Even people with boyfriends go through this, so even if you get a boyfriend you might experience the same feelings. It's better to try work on yourself before dating, so that you bring your best self to the relationships you enter. We suggest that you work through these feelings of anger in a different way. Try to do something like write, read, draw, do some sports activity outside, or anything else that you enjoy doing. Doing something that you love might help you build your self-esteem even more than a boyfriend would.
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Hi iv always thought ppl may see me as weird bcz of ths feeling i gt 4rm time 2 time, im some 1 who loves making new frnds nd im always game when it comes 2 meeting new ppl,bt my biggest problem im facing in life ever since i could remember is though im so flexible at meeting nd making new ppl i also am very good at witdrawing myself frm it all my own mom tht gave birth to me stl strugles 2 understand me up 2 ths day bt she neva succeed.You say that its good to try and talk 2 sum1 at times lyk ths bt believe me its really hard cz to me is lyl if my own mom dnt understands me how can i exspect sum1 els 2,cz at times i dont even underdtand myslf.I normarly lock myslf in my room at times lyk ths crying 4 hours not even knowing why im crying bt i jst do nd while crying i take a book nd pen nd start writing nd 2 my surprise whn m done writing i feel lyk a huge load hs been taken away nd the most surprising part of ths letter is whn m reading it i cum 2 realize tht its xsually a letter to God wthout my knowledge i wtote God a letter nd da best part of it all is i also recieved guidence nd answears frm God so my advice is tht whn u so strongly feel tht no1 wl ever understand u whn u feel tht way lyk i sujest tht u shld try my solution wtch i so strongly believe is da only solution tht works cz being in conversation wth God is da only conversation u need at tht time
I also Have your problem gal
Am an 18year old gal. Am dating with a guy of 19yrs he loves me a lot and i love him too but the problem is am shy to ask him questions lyk talking abt sex wat shall i do bcz he understands dat am not r3ady 4 sex and he says he can wait
Hi anonymous..communication is very important in every relationship. And what you're avoiding is exactly what you should be talking about so you can make informed decision
I procastinate and lie a lot ....i evn have a lot of sex and always moody too....everything keeps going wrong pls help
Hy!am James from Cape Town,ever since I got here I haven't get the right girlfriend and it's been 8 months now.I don't know what might be the cause,and now I have a very low self-esteem I even told my that am ugly or something plz help
Hi Jameson, don't stress to much. A lot of people struggle to find the right relationship and stay in it. You can try and do more social stuff that require you to get to know more people.Y ou shouldn't worry. What are your interests? Maybe you can join a dance class, go to the library, visit the park or something like that. Keep hope and don't give up if you feel like this is what you want.
Hi gyz I need help my face is full of pimples I don't know what to do now I tried every help possible plzz help to get rid of these pimples 😥😧
Hi it's normal to have pimples I also have them I used things to take it away but it didn't help coz I've got sensitive skin it made it worse maybe it isn't suitable enough for you not everyone's skin is the same so things that help others may not work on you. What I do is I don't use anything on my face don't apply no make up nothing. Wash your face in the morning just with water either luke warm water or cold water don't use hot water it will irritate your skin and make it worse. So wash your face with clean water don't use no soap nothing wash it in the morning and at night and don't wipe it dry off just pat dry it be gentle with your face and don't put on make up and all of those things just use plain Vaseline intensive care lotion on your face don't wash your face too much it will get dry and your face will eventually produce more oil which will cause more pimples to come out.
Just keep your face clean and stay away from alotta things that will make it worse.
Make sure you drink enough water so that your pimples can go away it will take a while to go away mine's going away my face is getting lighter and clearer.
So I hope it will work on you.
If not then try using organic products on your skin use home made things.
I feel like that alot though.
And I stress so much,
To a point where I'll start to feel sick.
I usually stress and worry about things I have no control over.
Hello guys I'm new
I jst lost my bby n it's hard for me to cope I need advice to get back to my game I'm 18 year's old
Hey Springster, thanks for reaching out to us. We know that this must be a really tough time for you, but please know that you are not alone and that there are people that you can talk to. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.
Hey I'm sorry.💕💕
Ooh I am so sorry about that I feel so bad 😟😟😟
I'm always getting this kinda feeling but I never had anyone I trust to talk to about the things that happen to myself most of the times I struggle on my own and believe that there's God so in whatever challenge I'm facing I talk to him
Hey Nosipo, you are definitely not alone and there are people who you can talk to when you are feeling low. It is a normal feeling that you have been experiencing. However, you should not go through it alone. It helps to find a trusted adult, sibling, teacher or counsellor at school that you can talk to. If not, you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.
Hy sprinster.... Just a while ago I was about to cut my wrists😔anger,disappointment is all I feel these days....thanks fr making me feel better. I hope that I get the right help in time
I'm new here n I saw the TPC ......talking about feelings ,I've been having strange emotions n I got mood swings . .... .is it Norma l for a young teenager lyk me to smtyms feel lyk crying ,in love ,annoyed wit my siblings ,angry ,sad n I always wanna by alone in my room with out anyone nagging me ??.......plz guyz help me out❤❤
Hey Nhnh, what you are experiencing is absolutely normal. During puberty your body produces hormones that may cause moods swings and this normal. If you do feel as though your mood swings are extreme then maybe you should try talking to a sibling, teacher, counsellor at school or a trusted adult.
I hate that gal i once had it its disgusting
u know I don't feel great since it been the winter holidays it just so boring and I know I just don't want to go back to school it just so boring and confusing why I feel this sad it makes me wanna cry cause I feel lonely and stupid so guys help I think I am getting depressed
My dear friend .. Don't let the things surrounding u get the best of u .. Holidays are ment to be fun , enjoyed , and later remember , do something u love ..like I'm good at writing poetry so I started a group on WhatsApp for poets n they have made my holidays worth it. So what I'm saying do something that makes u own ur space ..remember u are ur own Smile keeper
In your holidays try to make something that will make u busy e.g babysitter
I also get this feeling I really don't know what to do I font have friends in my neighborhood only at school and I can't contact them because they don't have cellphone's ,plz help me
hey ppz I'm new
Welcome to the Springster family.
Hii good people
Hi Springster .. 2015 my boyfriend forced me to do an arbotion . I went ahead with it is it possibl for me to give corncive?
I think that's part of life and all you need to so just accept that thinking and mean time it will pass on. back for you is to stay strong and just let thinking goes on and you will be OK.
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