You are such a brave girl Tumelo!
U are brave Tumelo,well done
I'm inspired Tupelo,well done.
Hi Tumelo I'm Nandiie I applaud you for not giving up and don't listen to all the negativety,because same people in life don't ever have good things to say
With all due respect
Did you knew that the guy had a babyMamma before u decide to
Give him another baby?
Bcz according to my understanding
You are inlove with some1z boyfriend
I drop out of school in 2016 I was doing grade 11 and I failed I didn't continue studying so this I'm 19 years old and I want to continue study but I'm very scared because other children are going to judge me because of my age so please help what can I do?
Hey Springster,you shouldn't be discouraged because you can still continue with your studies. Find out how by copying and pasting the link below: http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-future/how-i-finished-my-schooling-through-abet/
I'm 20 and I'm pregnant , I told my boyfriend who is stayung with his babymama and he said he doesn't want another baby since his already having problems of his own , so he gave me money to go do an abortion , he didn't even want to accompany me to that guy who do termination he told me that he was tired and he didn't want people to know his the father of my unborn child .... I went to the guy who was doing the termination and he gave me the pills and said I must drank them ...since I saw another lady who just did an abortion , I just kept on vomiting the pills until he told me to came back tomorrow ... For days and days I kept on going back then and he kept on giving me different pills but the pills just cleaned my stomach like I drunk castor oil , I told my boyfriend that I've decided to keep the baby at first he started ignoring me and acting very weird saying that he doesn't want people to find out but his baby mama kept bothering me , he said that he will take care of me and the baby .... I love the guy but I don't like playing his games and the painful part is that he keeps telling me he doesn't want to lose me and his baby mama either ... What should I do
Hey Buyigoody, thanks for reaching out to us. We know that this must be a really tough time for you, but please know that you are not alone and that there are people that you can talk to. This is a very important decision that you have to make - and one that will ultimately impact your life the most. Always remember that in any decision you make you should always put yourself and your well-being first. It sounds like you went to do your termination with someone who is not a registered healthcare worker. Please consult your nearest clinic or doctor to make sure that the pills you were given did not put you in danger. Also, the decision to stay in a relationship with someone is a choice you will have to make on your own. The main thing is that you are happy and satisfied with the person you chose to be with. If you don’t feel good or if you always upset and crying because of him it’s a sign that you should not be with your partner. In the end, you want to be with someone who is looking out for your well-being. For more information about knowing if your partner loves you and is interested in keeping you happy, check this link out http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/he-loves-me-he-loves-me-not/.
You should also be aware that it's important to reach out to people in our real lives. If you have the option, you can also speak to a trusted parent, older sibling, aunty, teacher or a professional who can offer you support or you can call Love Life on 0800 121 900 or send them a please call me on this number 0 8 3 3 2 3 1 0 2 3 to call you back. All the best Springster.
Thnx very Mich for such recruitment words.u really giving us a weapon to deal with.we like ur most beautiful mind u had n u dd nvr think about other people wat to say as u knew ur standing of life.I hope god has given u another opportunity to use.thnx for ur smart advises.
Hey Springster, we appreciate your feedback. It means a lot <3
Im 21 had a baby when I was 19.It wasnt easy accepting the pregnacy at one point I would think of an abortion and at one I would think of keeping it.So I then decided to tell my boyfriend about it he turnrf out to be very suppotive he took me to the clinic after that I decided to keep my baby.We then told his parents and they were very suppotive,but on my side only mother accepted the pregnancy thing but after I had given birth every thing changed every one liked the baby.so young teens out there who are in the situation I went through always know that it will come and pass you will think of an abortion but if you rethink you will realize how much you will develop love for the life growing in you
Having a child is not a curse nor a life stopping situation, A child is a blessing from god and everything happens for a reason no matter how many people people you have disappointed just stay strong and reach out to your goals.
How to take care of your new born baby??
Its nva to late to achieve ur goals
U deserve an award gal all that courage u must be real proud of urself
Yas Springster, support girls! It's beautiful when we do!
This was mouthful...I'm so proud of u god bless and keep on shinning
That's the spirit gal
This shows that even due to unforeseen obligagations,we still warriors
Am proud u didn't didn't give up cz of a baby cz a baby is never a stopping stone
wow. .that is so inspiring
That's wonderful .... I'm new here and I really find ur story inspiring
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