Jay

There's a guy we from the same Town we've been friends in a circle since childhood, in our friend circle he had his best friend and I had no one to call my best friend. We started making Music, Me, him and his best friend (the three of us). It turned out musically we love the same sound but for his best friend loves a different sound, so his best friend excluded himself and we are now left the two of us, the way we chat, we connect and it's not only about music we talk about our personal stuff since we've been friends but not best friends. From the way we do things like when he needs advice he comes to me. I don't know if he treats me as his best friend or what, and for me I don't know if is he my bestie or what's up, we are cool with each othe like we hang out together just the two us and have fun. Is the guy my best friend??

2 days, 23 hours ago
Getrude

Thats good

5 days, 1 hour ago
Vusta

Fuck

1 week ago
Anonymous

Nice

1 week ago
Anonymous

Mmmh i love this statement also but I'm having a problem guys like i love my bestie alot but its like we dont connect i dont know of shes the one or I'm the problem cuz we stay in same street but we hardly c each other n if i try to call her shes either busy or just not in the mood ....so lately i just decided to not talk to her or say anything n its bothering me cuz shes the only one n um not that social type of person n its hard to make friends to me 😢somebody help !what should i do .

1 week, 1 day ago
Shazzie

I love this Statement... Supporting each other and being there when needed is the key to a long and strong friendship! Thrust!!!

1 week, 2 days ago
LickStar

Yes love your ɞєṡṭıє💕

2 weeks, 1 day ago
Lilromeo23

Courage is facing yr fear stupidity is fearing nothing.

3 weeks ago

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Likuye

Hi girls I have a friend and I always get higher marks than her and she just gets jealous and she would start shouting and not talk to me the right way

2 weeks, 2 days ago
Anonymous

How I can start friendship???

3 weeks, 2 days ago
Anonymous

How I can start friendship???

3 weeks, 2 days ago
Reazation

But if you have other friends and their cousin after they talk about family stuff and your friend is jeolus every time when you talk to her in privousy she will say you and kelebogile talk your privuosy things we didnt cry and she pushes them

3 weeks, 3 days ago
Love

❤❤❤

3 weeks, 4 days ago

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Reazation

Love you too♥️♥️♥️♥️

3 weeks, 3 days ago
PALESA

Be the best friend and try by all means to give love and comfort ❤be the first one who turns her tears into forever smile

3 weeks, 6 days ago
Anonymous

I have a friend who thinks only about herself. Like every time we received our tests in class, and she got higher marks than me , she would usually brag about it . But if I get higher marks than her she won't show me her script and she won't talk to me for the rest of the week

4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, our friends should bring out the best in us and not feel like less. Talk to your friend about how you feel and if she still makes you feel down then try think about if being her friend is worth it.

3 weeks, 4 days ago
Anonymous

Tell him if how you feel

3 weeks, 2 days ago
Anonymous

Tell him if how you feel

3 weeks, 2 days ago
LESBIAN125

Hi, springster l have so many frnds and thy all like gals so much that thy can't Even control themselves. And now thy want me to cheat on my galfrnd just to prove lm an outlaw(skwat) lmagine!wat should l do pls advice

4 weeks, 1 day ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey LESBIAN125, there's no need to cheat on your girlfriend just to prove something to your friends. Know what your priorities are and know what matters most. If you feel like you want to be with other people, be honest with your girlfriend, but try not to cheat on her just because your friends think it's cool

3 days, 4 hours ago
Tiniah

Hi springster am in a big circle of friends and one of them likes to control us and I want to be out of that cirlce but I don't know how please I really need ur advice

1 month ago
Ntomboxolo

Hy guyz I used to have a best friend but we fought about a boy now we are not friends

1 month, 1 week ago
suriany

hello guy so I he'd a best friend but now we are no longer together but we still tk on Facebook and on WhatsApp I love her and she sad that she mss me 😪😭😭

1 month, 1 week ago
Precious_5

I used to have a best friend, she is older than me and she had other friends in her school but that didn't affect our friendship even though I was the one who would go to her house I enjoyed her company so much. But this year I didn't visit her for about six months but I did go on her birthday,to be honest I miss her so much but I can't just go there I don't even know what to say when I get there, we enjoyed every moment of the times we had from sleep overs to shopping. I really want to go to her as she is going through a rough patch right now but what do I do because she will think I am going to mock her of her situation 😞😞

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Lucy

You can just simply go to her nd explain / give her the reasons to why you did not visit her if you have any but don't take all the blame I mean she was also supposed to put effort in yours friendship by visiting you ,but as you said that she's going through some bd staff just go and be there for her and whenever things are better talk about yourl and try to fix things

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Go too here

1 month, 1 week ago
Amica

Hey my name is Amica and my friend is zama from durban . I still really love her even though she doesn't love me the way I love her . Ever since I left Durban and i went to Johannesburg by some reason. I would use a word mean for her because since I've stayed here jhb for about 8 years she never love me again . If I came for a holiday to Durban and I'd go to her just to check her she'd look me as if I'm not her friend as if I'm a stranger of something . I would contact via Facebook and Whatsapp and she would ignore me . I thought I had a best friend but that docent seem so she's so mean . But I now I told myself that the better way to leave her is to delete her numbers and block her because I'm just wasting my energy .

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Mpielow

Wow dear ur story is more like mines I've also given up on her my bestie i thought shes the one i could trust um so heartbroken i just let go of her few days ago cuz i also felt like um wasting my energy on her but i miss her😢

1 week, 1 day ago