Siwela

Hy guys ...I am in luv with my gf with whom I luv so much but the problem is she now lyk to stay with mie whilist I am not ready to stay with her...how best can I solve it coz if I tell her she will say I am not serious with our relationship.... Remember I luv her and I don't want to lse her

1 day, 5 hours ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Lawrence, the people in our lives should always try their best to understand us, be kind and be fair to us. You have to be honest with your partner and tell her the truth. Make sure that when you tell her you do not want her to stay with her, you also tell her your reasons why and that you love her and don't want to lose her. It might be tough for her to understand at first, but she should get it eventually. If she doesn't you might need to reconsider the kind of relationship you have with her.

14 hours, 44 minutes ago
Anonymous

My best friend does not trust me like she does with her other friend at school

6 days, 8 hours ago
asanda

My best friend does not trust me like she does with her other friend at school

6 days, 8 hours ago

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Anonymous

Sorry gal...me too...they have secrets😖😖😢😢😢😢😢😢😎😎😎😎

6 days, 4 hours ago
Jay-jay

The problem is that as ppl we are secretive, and that's not a healthy friendship

5 days, 17 hours ago
Sennysah

Guys the person I tots was my bestie wronged me so badly she became a bestie to my enemy 😥and I really loved her but nou I've accepted nd I got my new best of d bestie Nkosikhona we love each other so badly😍😍😘😘lov u my bestie

1 week, 3 days ago
marsh

guys could u plz give me some advice. I have a bestie so this bestie of mine she is angry on me telling me that I talk behind her back and I never did that. even if I ask her what did they say who are they she refuses to tell me also not to forget that there are some friends of mine who don't like to see me walking with my bestie doing friendship staffs ..

1 week, 4 days ago
Mamasita

My friend happy thinks she is better than me I don't knw maybe she is 😏

1 week, 5 days ago
Mamasita

I got a friend who has a very cute baby gal n I love my friend so much I never stop supporting her through hard time

1 week, 5 days ago
Enhle3_Mkhize

hey guys my best friend thinks that i'm pretending her what i must do?

2 weeks ago
Isabella
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nano

I have no friends and I feel lonely

2 weeks, 2 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster thanks for your comment. Welcome to Springster, here we are a group of girls who support each other. You can read our articles on confidence. Upping your confidence can help you make friends both online and offline. Good luck Springster!

2 weeks, 1 day ago
Sennysah

Nano where do u live?

1 week, 2 days ago
anelisiwe

hey guyz i need help im dating a guy but im hiding our relationship to my family now i want to tell my family what must i do?

2 weeks, 4 days ago

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nano

Me too I know it's hard but the will approve if you're old enough and you really love your boyfriend

2 weeks, 2 days ago
T-gal

hy guys..... am a kind of gal who's shy,... am not that open to my mom even my best friend I don't know why.. sometimes I feel like being alone what's wrong with me is there any problem with me??

2 weeks, 5 days ago

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Pabalelo

T-gal there's nothing wrong with you.You are absolutely fine. It's totally normal for you to want to keep things to yourself or want to be alone.Most people feel 'at peace' when they are alone.I guess your one of those people.I also like to be alone at times

2 weeks, 4 days ago
Kassandra

Hi there T-gal.....im Kassandra i also like to be alone most of the times just to refresh my mind and relax yeah.....just to think about my problems and find a way to resolve them ......so u are not alone in this and I'm also not really open with my mom and my best friend but i see it just normal so please don't think anything stupid just know that u are normal just like all the other kids here

2 weeks, 3 days ago
anonymous

Hey guys I need ur help I'm so lost. So in 2016 I started dating dis qut guy and told my best frnd abt him. At first no1 knew the guy or paid attention to him until we started dating, so dis year this frnd of mine started hitting on him. How do I tell her to leave my man for me

2 weeks, 5 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster thanks for your comment. Try to have an honest talk with your friend about how you feel. You might find that she is just being friendly and not hitting on him. Good luck

2 weeks, 1 day ago
Anonymous

I have some feelings on some boy. When I told my friend about him, she started to love him while she know very well that it's been years I loved that boy .why is she doing this on me 😕😕 ??

3 weeks ago
Anonymous

I have a bestie and we always do things togwther. she usually hangs out with boys which usually gets me a bit lonely. there is a boy that used to like her and I think I'm starting to like him and he's starting to like me too. I'm not sure if she still likes him so please help me

3 weeks ago

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Anonymous

Ask her about the boy

3 weeks ago
Lesedi

All I say is clear things wth Ur friend be clear if she is still intrested into this guy 😌

2 weeks, 4 days ago
Anonymous

Talk to your friend and ask her about the guy nicely

2 weeks, 1 day ago
Amy

I have a bestie and we always do things togwther. she usually hangs out with boys which usually gets me a bit lonely. there is a boy that used to like her and I think I'm starting to like him and he's starting to like me too. I'm not sure if she still likes him so please help me

3 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hi ,I had a fight with my friend so we no longer talk . She sits opposite me at school ,so should I speak to her (we are in the same class ) She knows all my secrets so should I be friends with her so that she doesn't tell anyone?? Please may I remain anonymous ?

3 weeks, 5 days ago

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Pabalelo

You should be friends with her because you want to not because your afraid that she will tell people your secrets. If you dont want to be friends with her at least try to be civil with her.If you want to be friends with her apologise and maybe she will forgive you.But if you dont want to be friends with her just let her be

2 weeks, 4 days ago
ZOE

➡You are not alone ... ➡Same here...

4 weeks ago
ZOE

I lost friends the day I found out that they smoke...they wanted me to smoke as well, when I refused they my told that they can't hang out with someone who's a drama Queen so I'm friendless :(

4 weeks ago
tayrA

I think its nice to have a bestie..I love my bestie Sharonique nd Lauren.WE all have someone that is very close to our hearts nd we should appreciate them nd love them .#ⓑⓔⓢⓣⓘ love 😘

4 weeks ago