Anonymous

This is more of a question than a comment. I have a friend that I hardly ever talk to because its a long distance friendship but when she comes back home, things go back to normal and we have the most amazing conversation and fun sleepovers. Is this a normal friendship? If not how can we make it better?

5 days, 8 hours ago Report

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panda

There is no problem in having a long distance relationship but you do NEED to COMMUNICATE.

4 days, 16 hours ago Report
Anonymous

Thanks Panda. We will work on it I guess.

2 days, 10 hours ago Report
lucy

Hi I'm new here I don't hv a bestie but hoping to find one someday

6 days, 1 hour ago Report

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panda

No pressure but if you are looking for a bestie I wouldn't. mind being that one.If you don't.

4 days, 16 hours ago Report
Natasha

I don't mind being your bestie hun

2 days, 18 hours ago Report
panda

hi I am new here, but I tend to feel left out in my group of friends as we are a crowd of 5.Please help me.

6 days, 21 hours ago Report

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Anonymous

Hi panda sometimes you just need to be with the right crowd ..choose your friends wisely and trust me you will never be alone

5 days, 9 hours ago Report
Lhala_22

I really love this article and will improve the bond between me and my bestie👭💑❤

1 week, 1 day ago Report

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panda

hey lahla_21 I would also like help from u on how to be a good best friend

6 days, 21 hours ago Report
Jay-lo

Hey...I'm new here,me and my bestie have been friends for 11 years now and its really great having her in my life she's like a sister to me,we don't live in the same area but we always find a way to communicate she's a really amazing person shes very understanding,the things I like about her is she understands my pass she doesn't judge me she always advises me and she's always there in time of need we both may have other friends of our own but we will never let anyone come between us and for that I love her very much.

1 week, 2 days ago Report
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Anonymous

hi springster my best friend and I have been through a lot... nd now that we're going to high school I'm scared that we'll lose each other nd I really love her she means a lot

1 week, 6 days ago Report

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panda

Hi, Since she is your best friend you should be honest with and it all starts with telling her how you feel.

6 days, 21 hours ago Report
Siyasanga

Guys sometimes besties are helping but sometimes are judging and are jealous.

2 weeks ago Report
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Siyasanga

Hey guys i'm new here it is nice having a best friend because sometimes you need someone to talk to and you can talk to your bestie.

2 weeks, 1 day ago Report
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Atlanta06

Hi... having a best friend is not that easy because sometimes you will have to take blames even if you did nothing wrong , sometimes you will feel like they don't like you anymore but love caries all ... keep what you love , teach or talk to your bestie . Show them you don't take things too personal . I'm used to my best friend she is so fragile she get upset easily ... even if we our own point of view she will make sure she is the right one but love her I guess that is why we are still bestie we have good and best moments . ❤

2 weeks, 1 day ago Report

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panda

hey, the reason why u guys click is because you guys care about each.other emotionally

6 days, 21 hours ago Report
Demnesco

I'll say u don't like it course u don't see the negative but u being positive when you complement each other in a good way

2 weeks, 3 days ago Report
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Anonymous

sometimes as girls we don't like complimenting each other

2 weeks, 3 days ago Report

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panda

hey, The only reason us girls dont complement. each other is because we have pride

6 days, 21 hours ago Report
Cay

Hi springster, I have friend and I love her so much...she's probably the first besty of mine and the first I built such feelings for but sometimes I get jealous because she won't ask me to go with her to the tuckshop then after a while I feel I won't talk to her but I at night I cry and pray for our friendship to get stronger and the next day I apologize. Tell me what to do to not be angry for her at sometimes because it is useless to me

3 weeks ago Report

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panda

Hey Cay,what I see her is that you are feeling threatened when she does not ask you to go with her to the shop.I think you should try speaking her and you should tell her how you really feel truthfully

6 days, 21 hours ago Report
Amie

Thank u springster😙 now i feel much better

3 weeks, 2 days ago Report
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Amie

Hi springsters ,i've got a friend here..sometime i get jealous of her🙈she always get many likes on Internet she posts her pics,people seem to love her more than me,am always told how sweet she is than..i get so annoyed. ..what can i do to get likes on Internet, get people to love me etc ..plz help am starting to have a low self esteem now

3 weeks, 4 days ago Report

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Springster, you shouldn't base your confidence and self-love on how many likes you get online. Right now you desire to be liked by strangers on the internet is causing you to have negative emotions towards your friend. Build your self-esteem around yourself, what is real and be grateful for who you are and what you have. Don't let the internet take over your life.

3 weeks, 3 days ago
panda

The internet is evil you should not always feel loved or look by the internet because the likes on the internet are people who just like you based on what they see and not what is in the heart.I would really like to be your friend,Amie

6 days, 21 hours ago Report
Amie

Hey Panda and Thank u vry much 4 yr comment it really helped😙❤anywai i would'nt mind being yr friend👭😂

4 days, 11 hours ago Report
bae

hi everyone can I please get help my Bestiie sometimes does whatever she can to move away from me and I dnt think she wants to be my friend so can I get help

3 weeks, 5 days ago Report

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Tshimo. Communication is key! Ask your friemd whts happening maybe shes distancing herself because she has slmething going on in her life. Try and be a support system for her and tell her youre there if she needs you. Another reason might be that she is over the friendship that's okay too. Some friendships aren't meant to last forever so ask her and you'll know what's going on.

3 weeks, 4 days ago
panda

Hey Gabi I would really like to be your friend I fell that you have the inspiration I need. I go to fish hoek high school

6 days, 21 hours ago Report
sammy

Hi I am new here ..I would like to be given an advice ..I think I have a problem I simple can't trust anyone the reason of that is ..I had a relationship but it ended badly.. My ex boi friend promised me heaven and earth ..he said he would never leave me ..we dated one year and 10 months he cheated on me and he did not even apologize instead he told me that I don't know what I really want in life now I can't trust anyone because of my ex I trusted him a lot ..now I find it hard to even build friendship I have a friend but I don't trust her enough and I want to but ..I find it hard to do that..what do I do.. Plz advice me guys

3 weeks, 6 days ago Report

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi balush. Welcome to Springster and thanks for sharing your comment with us. If he still wanted to pursue a relationship with you, he would be there with you instead of playing games. I suggest you let it go, I know it's hard, you spent a long time together and that's not something you can move on from easily. But remember that you deserve to be respected and he has proven that he can't give you that, so move on. Be strong, you can do it! Good luck!

1 week, 6 days ago
Anonymous

Wow reminds me my best friend❤Nolitha❤

4 weeks, 1 day ago Report

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Gabi - Moderator

Thanks for reading out story Babz

3 weeks, 4 days ago
Anonymous

I had this friend I really loved as a sister .We became frnds when we were in grnd 1 and we used to share and help each other with everything but when we got into high school she had boyfriends and she pushed me away and started having new friends but then I got new frnds too and started a new life with them

1 month ago Report

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Anonymous

Same thing happened to me. Now she lives with her boyfriend and they have a baby together and She’s only 20 years old. I am in varsity now so I did it without her anyway.

4 weeks ago Report
Ona.le.rona

Well i had a bestiie in primary but when we were at high school ,she started distancing herself from me so i said bye Felicia and i found my new 2 bestiies and we have a bond that no one can break but if u want a friend,i am here All u have to do is ask for my details

1 month ago Report

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi justagirl. Thanks for your comment it's great that you met two new friends and that your bond is unbreakable, everyone deserves friends they can count on. You can chat to other Springsters in the comments section but please refrain from taking your conversation offline for safety reasons. Thank you!

1 month ago
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Gabi - Moderator

Hi justagirl. Thanks for sharing you comment. We're is glad that you could move and an make other friends who love and support you and whom you have built a sisterhood with. Please refrain from wanting to interact with people off the website for your safety. Keep conversations with Springsters in the comments section.

1 month ago