Anonymous

You are lucky hey to have a friend that support you

5 days, 4 hours ago
Anonymous

Hey Guys I'm new here..I have a best friend we almost grew up together & I ended up taking her as my sister,we always shared our secrets together & did all naughty stuff some,She's In Matric & I'm in varsity,I was dating this guy way back & the guy fvcked up my life but my friend would tell me to let go but I couldn't because I loved him few months I ended the relationship then my friend & I's communication started to lower.months passed by & we didn't talk nor call each other & few weeks back I just found out they are dating "My Ex & Bestie" & She's Now Telling Me That I've Changed,I'm Nowadays Picky😒.I Feel like I'm betrayed 😣What must I do????😯

1 week, 4 days ago
Anonymous

I also once had a bestie.....we used to share everything,I still remember those days,its like they were yesterday😂we would eat chocolate and leave the remaining one to melt in the sun⚡ We used to be close until she betrayed me.She thought that I was always trying to be "the cool girl" compared to her She went to our friends and lied about me now I'm lonely because all my friends "ABANDONED ME" but hey I don't blame them Now every after school I have to look outside my window I see them chilling And at school(we go to the same school)she enjoys it when people call me a nerd because I'm always on books She always tease me - but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger right? I have difficulties making friends cause I don't know who to trust And the sad thing is I no-more believe in besties😳

2 weeks, 2 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey @Isabell, friendships can sometimes be tricky to deal with and sometimes we have to let go of the ones that aren't good for us. Being lonely is no fun at all but there's always a chance to make new friends. Check out the article http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/kiss-and-make/ on how to fix a broken friendship if you still want to be friends with your bestie. If not, you can read the article on letting go http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/art-letting-go/. All the best Springster.

2 weeks, 1 day ago
Ayonela

Shame thats so the person u trust....thats why people say" better trust a stone than a person"......

1 week, 5 days ago
luyanda

me and my best'friend anded our friendship because of she thinks i am jealous if her ......she says most of the times i say i give her advices I'm just encouraging her to to what i know it's gonna get her to trouble and i was just helping so now i want us to rebuild our friendship but i don't know where to start so can i get some advises ♡♡

3 weeks ago

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FINBOND

U must believe in ur self girl if u don't know

2 weeks, 4 days ago
Ikhona

I also have that kind of bestie

3 weeks, 2 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Iran, it's super cool that you have a great bestie!

3 weeks ago
Kido

I've got a loving friend that support me and i support her. I have been telling her all the things about me but there's 1 thing that I've not told her.It is very hard for me to tell her.Deep inside wants to tell her but im afraid that when our friendship has broken then she goes telling the world about the matter.I love her and trust her but i cant tell her this but i want to.So can you give me the solution.

3 weeks, 3 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Keighdow, it's awesome that you have a loving and supportive friend. You do not have to rush to tell your friend anything, when you are ready to tell her your secret you can do so. And if you decide not to tell her then that's your decision and that's fine too.

3 weeks ago
Khayakazi

Hey I am new here I have friend that is naughty everybody hates her, and I love her so much. We like to tell each other our secret. My best friend hate this friend of mine. I love this friend more than my best friend. My best friend is always serious, don't like to playing with others and she is a cheese gal, she didn't grow up"Ekasi"and my friend loves things e.g dating and drinking but she never force me to do something I don't wanna do, she is caring and she grow up"Ekasi" and we like to gossip😁

4 weeks, 1 day ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Mbamdila, it's lovely to see that you have different types of who you enjoy hanging out with. Even though your bestie doesn't like your friend no one can tell you who to be friends with or not. The important thing is to make sure you are happy and safe. All the best Springster.

4 weeks ago
Ketso

Hi I am new here I have a BESTIE whom our family r related she have my bf's contact nd chating with him I found out that they ask each other and they always tell each other that I luv u so my friend she said she is not dating the guy so should u be her friend or what

1 month ago

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Dineo9609

Hey Ketso My advice to you: ditch them both...okay maybe not your "bestie", but the dude needs to get the hell outta your life. There's a whole lotta fish in the sea. And if you want some payback, catch uBesties muntu ;)

1 month ago
season

hy I think you should we should leave them both and find a new Beastie

4 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hi guys.need help.i hav a frend that acts like a drama queen e.g when she laughs 4 something that isnt funny then u ask her "why u laughing".then wispers in my ear .i am going to tell my mommy.last week we had a fight then she tells me she lost her mom when she was young but she tells me everytime i am going to tell my mommy.we had fights since last year (4-5)and i forgave her and she does it again this year.should i forgive her or not:-/

1 month ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello Gabrielle Friendships are good but they can also be challenging.Try to talk to her while it is just the two of you.She might be going through something and which is the reason why she is reacting this way.Tell how her reactions make you feel.We hope this helps Springster.After talking to your friend please let us know how things went.

1 month ago
Anonymous12345

Thanks I will try it and tell u how it went

1 month ago
Anonymous

You should Comfort her even though she turned her back on you... -never make fun of her -Always be there for her

1 month, 1 week ago
Thula_N

Hi guys i need help.i had a best friend whom we've been friends for a very long time then we made friends with some other girl she was new in our neighbourhood and they became closer than me and her.they became best friends and i was excluded in most of the things our relationship was broken but we are still friends.now the girl has moved away to another place and now she doesn't have a bestie anymore.what should i do?

1 month, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Nokubownga, friendships can get a lil bit complicated sometimes and it's not easy to deal with these things. Maybe you should try talk to your friend and see how she feels about your friendship. Also check out this article and see if you can't get any tips: http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/kiss-and-make/

1 month ago
Manana

Be her friend even if things were bad , she will thank you for that#girl's code

1 month ago
Anonymous

Hii guy's i need your help ,my bestie turned her back on my now she is pregnant and now need's my help .Plz tell me what to do??

1 month, 1 week ago

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Anonymous

Help her😁

1 month, 1 week ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Denolah, thank you for your comment. It is very kind of you to want to help your bestie because that's what friends do. We have some articles on the site to help you deal with such situations, please check out this story for some tips (you can copy and paste the link in your browser) : http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/15-and-pregnant/ It would also be advisable for your friend to speak to a trusted adult because she shouldn't have to deal with this alone. If your friend can't speak to an adult she can speak to a qualified professional from Childline SA. They're number is a toll-free line: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information. They will help her figure out what to do next and help to deal with the emotional stress that she is currently going through.

1 month, 1 week ago
Thabsie

Hi springster I had this friend whom I though she was my friend I told her everything about me.Even personal stuff but now she just turned her back on me I don't know what's happening. and im afraid she'll start telling people my secrets

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Anonymous

If she care about you she won't .

1 month, 1 week ago
Sibahle

I had changed high schools this year. I made a new friend. We began to get sooo close , we would buy the same stuff, take pics together, posts each other and more. But ever since she found other new friends , we have been distant. I don't like her new friends, because they are a bad influence to her and other people. When everyone saw that she had changed , she changed again. We talked about this matter, she listened and we were friends again. We still distant, we don't talk nor greet each other. When I'm sitting with one of my friends , that she is friends with , and greeets her and not me , it's awkward. I don't know what to do. Please help 🙂

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Amanda_Mw

friends change. like seasons hunny, just move on and find new better frands.✌🏽

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Nah baby don't confront the issue. If that's the way she's treating you , let it go. Never force vibes with someone. If she needs you back in her life as a friend , she'll come back. But for now , focus on yourself. ❤💍

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Lethokuhle

I need a best friend,who's interested?

1 month, 3 weeks ago

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Meme

Hi m melissa we can try n see where it gets us

1 month, 3 weeks ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hi Yakhokuhle and QAZ, we appreciate your engagement on Springster, but please be aware that we highly discourage you from sharing your name on this site because it's really important to keep your identity safe on online sites. We would also encourage you to completely avoid sharing other personal details like your contact information, location, etc. Doing so would only invite predators, unwanted attention and would also risk your safety. Please read our rules and guidelines for commenting on the the website. Thanks.

1 month, 2 weeks ago
C_star43

Hala i wld lyk 2 be ur frnd if u don't mind

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

I would like to be your friend if you don't mind

1 month, 1 week ago
Nicky

I like My friends because they are always there for me no matters what happen but all my friends has already use sex and I feel out if they tell about how do they sex and I'm a Virgine but I don't care it is not me it's them they are my besties

1 month, 4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Mellodene, we are are so proud to know that you can stand for your own truth despite all the pressure. You are so right! It's important to have sex when you feel ready and not when it's just because others are having it. Keep it up Springster!

1 month, 4 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hie guys.I'm 26 turnin 27 plz help me wat do I do.I have never enjoyed sex and have never felt my sex reaching climax and I never get ready to be wet.wat do I do

2 months ago
Candy_leigh2000

I've never had a bestie before and I'd like to have one. It's just that when you're an introvert it's really hard to make and keep friends.

2 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey ThandiDibah, it's totally okay to be an introvert, but we totally understand sometimes you just want company and someone to talk to. You shouldn't worry. What are your interests? Maybe you can join a dance class, go to the library, visit the park or something like that. If you can't figure that out, maybe you can check out our article in the link below. It tells you how you can find friends online. Copy and paste it. We think it will help you. Good luck! http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/meet-your-bestie-facebook/

2 months ago
Nina

I think its really good to be true to your friend

2 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello Springster We agree with you.Great comment.Thank you.

2 months ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Monda, we think it's a great idea too. Thanks for your comment.

2 months ago
Boitumelo

They say when days are dark friends are few my friends are bullies all but they always get me in to trouble if I turn my back on them

2 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello Ramaleka Friends are supposed to support and love you.They are the people who should be friendly and easy to talk to.They are not supposed to bully you.It is important to surround yourself with people who make you do good things and not bad.

2 months ago