Hanli

How do you run away from home?I hate my family,everyone in this house.Everyone wants something I have and I hate that,they want the same clothes as me this christmas.Everyone hates me even my parents I can feel it in thee atmosphere.As I'm writing this comment I'm crying and I'm broken.I was accused of stealing in my home by my own mother but I'm only 13 years old.!!!!I just want it all to end I wanna leave I wanna die if I have to.I'm not who they think I am.I am different .I gave my heart to the Lord but even that wasent enough.They judged me .Hated Me.Please help me for I have no one else to talk to.

3 weeks, 4 days ago Report

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Hanli, we are sorry that you have to go through this. Call Childline on 08 000 55 555 (Its free, you don't need airtime) they are there for you should you need someone to talk to.

3 weeks, 2 days ago
MUHLE

Hey Hanli... Am a 20 year old guy experiencing the same thing.. It all started so innocent ... We had a fight with my mom.. She lie to me everytime about serious matters.. So I decided to Leave the house for a week.. I thought of a place where there's no human being but just me.. I left my phone and everything home.. Went to the bush.. I wanted to kill myself but someone saw me.. He brought me back home.. That's when I started doing drugs.. They didn't seem to care about me at home.. A month passed by still in drugs. But one day while i was on my way to buy some drug.. I met a Pastor. He told me how dangerous and bad my life is.. He invited me to his church.. I didn't wanna go there but my heart kept pushing me.. I saw myself there.. They prayed for me.. aS we speek am out of drugs.. Am a church goer I got help in the name of Jesus... buT what hurts the most is that Me and my family still ain't close

3 weeks, 2 days ago Report
Gabi - Moderator

Hi Hanli and Teebae. Thank you both for your comments. This must be a very difficult time for you both, considering running away from home is a big deal and I think you should both think about speaking to a friend, mentor or professional for support. There are people and places where you can seek assistance. Having people in your life that you can talk to will help you cope with your disappointment, loss, loneliness or sadness. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are suicidal, depressed or feel alone. They are here to help you! Contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

3 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hi I am 19 years old. I have a baby gil at the age of 2 . ever since I gave birth I've lost my confidence when I look at my self and compare to my friends I feel unloved and not part of my peers I just hate myself I've lost weight because of the hatred I carry in my heart everyday. Yes I hate my baby daddy for making me pregnant and ruining my life like this .. Some of my friends have finished school and are now in varsity I am only going to do grade 11 next year.. I just need help in getting my confidence back and loving myself again i and find a way to forgive my baby daddy for the rejection he gave me when I fell pregnant ... Guys plz help me to forgive and forget about every thing

4 weeks, 1 day ago Report

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Philanqo. Thanks for your comment. Here's an article I think you should read http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/girl-stories/mother-16-matriculant-22/ The worst thing you can do is compare yourself to other people. Your journey has been different but that doesn't mean you can't achieve your goals or be successful. Hatred is a negative emotion. You need to remember your power and that you are capable of anything and you can achieve anything you put your mind to. Here's another article you can read to boost your confidence http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/your-confidence-check/

4 weeks, 1 day ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, thank you for your comment. You are very brave for sharing how you feel. It is very important that you speak to someone about your body image and how you are feeling. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are suicidal, depressed or feel alone. They are here to help you! Contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

4 weeks, 1 day ago
Khathozi

I also have a problem with my family they have totally rejected me at least if I had some support and love at home I would cope but they always judge me call me names I know I've done wrong and I've tried many times to show regret but they always treat me as an outsider Christmas is coming soon and they haven't talked about buying me new clothes or anything of that sort they bought their own things and ignored me I feel left out worse by my own family we are all girls and should be supporting one another but here I am being lonely and unloved when I talk to them they always remind me of my past and show total rejection towards me... How can I make them love me like their own family and understand that I don't need much from them but love and support this really kills me :(

4 weeks, 1 day ago Report
Nomcebo

Can anyone help me m 20 years old i hv three year baby this year i was doing my grade 11 but i failed so now i dont know what to do with y life as no one around me and supporting me as i dont hv a family m staying with my baby in a small room paying for rent ...my family baby dont care about her now i just think giving her for adoption can be a solution cz m not happy with the life m living i always cried when i think of my life just some times i think of killing myself but the problem is that where m going to leave my baby as she dont hv anyone else beside me plz if someone can give me an advice that take me out from ths situation plz help cz now i can do it alone please

1 month, 1 week ago Report

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Nomcebo. Thanks for sharing your comment with us. It's great that you're still trying to complete school and I think it's important to pursue that dream still, even if you failed you can still do it and pass. With regard to your living arrangements, it must be very difficult to decide what you're going to do and it's not a decision that should be taken lightly. Have you spoken to a teacher, mentor or professional for support? Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but it might be a good idea to talk your feelings through with someone from Childline SA. Give them a call and they will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. You can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 month ago
creambutter

Hey everyone I'm really struggling because at school I've lost friends even the lamest ones who smoke weed don't wanna chill with me only my boyfriend does. am I boring?

2 months ago Report

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi creamybutterfly. Thanks for your comment. Losing friends isn't always a bad thing. Sometimes you need to lose friends who aren't good for you and meet friends who have similar interests to you. You aren't boring, don't panic. Many people have had to make new friends growing up and it's part of life. Don't take it too hard, you'll be fine and now maybe focus on your studies because it's the end of the year.

1 month, 4 weeks ago
Wondergirl

Im a suicidal person, I've tried to kill myself several times and every time I feel depressed I drag a razor on my skin, I just realized that I need help this has become a habit now

2 months, 3 weeks ago Report

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Springster. Thank you for being brave and sharing your comment with us. This must be very difficult for you but you don't have to feel alone, there are places that can offer you help. Have you thought about speaking to a teacher, mentor or friend for support. Sometimes sharing why we are sad helps us find solutions from others because we are more alike than we are different. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, depressed or feel alone. They are here to help you! Contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information

2 months, 2 weeks ago
made.of.gold

Hey girl! Thanks for being brave. Life is precious. Remember temporary solution have permanent consequences. You're important and you're loved!

1 month, 2 weeks ago Report