Anonymous

I'm so hurt I used to stay with father of my two sons for eleven years he became abusive and aggressive so I left him last of last week .he came at my house he wanted to beat me so a family friend who was with me try to stop him he stabbed him he almost killed him. Now this guy want to date me and I don't like him and he make me feel like I have to just becouse he was stabbed for me even my own mother is selling me out. and he's starting to control me and my mother and other people are on his side.so I'm so hurt and alone I'm even crying as I'm writing this please help

1 day, 23 hours ago
nakhozi123

I'm so hurt I used to stay with father of my two sons for eleven years he became abusive and aggressive so I left him last of last week .he came at my house he wanted to beat me so a family friend who was with me try to stop him he stabbed him he almost killed him. Now this guy want to date me and I don't like him and he make me feel like I have to just becouse he was stabbed for me even my own mother is selling me out. and he's starting to control me and my mother and other people are on his side.so I'm so hurt and alone I'm even crying as I'm writing this please help

1 day, 23 hours ago
nyope

I found the article helpful interms of starting to myself busy.I will join an organisation around my community so that im able to help the next person ineed and aswell to destress from thinking alot about what had happened.

1 week, 1 day ago
Lenor

Please help me people I feel so lonely and always sad its like I am not alive anymore and sometimes I feel like killing myself.... My children are far away from me and my boyfriend isn't talking to me and my mom says words that don't build my confidence my little sister has her own issues so I figure I've got nothing to live for just like nothing is ever going to come my way and I don't have any friends so as lonely as a broken shell am and am loosing my mind

2 weeks, 4 days ago
Anonymous

Hi springster please help I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not I had an unprotected sex for the first time with my boyfriend we have both tested so I know his status, we brought the morning after pills same day so the following month I went on my periods normal but now I have been having headache everyday and i feel like something is moving in my stomach sometimes I don't know what happening I'm scared to go and check can it be possible that I'm pregnant?

3 weeks, 5 days ago
namhla

Hy guys im namhla ...Guys i feel lonely no one care about me even my own mom today she told me to live the house i dont know where to go ...I tried many times to kill my self ...Guys everyone in my life turn their back on me...I just feel lonely in my life

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Namhla, we really care about your safety so please do not use your real name when commenting online, if you click on the girl icon, in the top left hand corner of Springster, then click update user profile, you can really easily change this to something that helps you remain anonymous and safe! Also, thank you so much for reaching out to us. We think you should try to contact another family member, a trusted neighbour or a schoolteacher to ask for assistance. Please do not be afraid to ask for help in this situation. Once you are in a safe place you can also call Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 month, 2 weeks ago
2237

Look girl I'm gonna advice you to be strong cause I know one day your mom gonna regret all the things she did and said to you just hang in there if your old enough go and look for work and rent a place bb

6 days, 18 hours ago
Anonymous

Look girl I'm gonna advice you to be strong cause I know one day your mom gonna regret all the things she did and said to you just hang in there if your old enough go and look for work and rent a place bb

6 days, 18 hours ago
Lydia

I always feel alone n sad hopeless and sometimes I say in my heart that I have nothing to live for I don't go out n don't go to town I'm scared to evn go to the nearest shop wen I go to I feel like people are laughing at me

2 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, thank for sharing your story with us.This is an important first step in getting the support that you need. You really should try approaching a family member or a friend to help by being there for you when you experience sadness. Unfortunately we cannot speak to your directly, but we recommend that you speak to a counsellor. The counsellors at Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

2 months ago
Anonymous

hy springster ...I always feel lonely ,,like I'm trapped in a cage alone with the monsters in my mind... I feel like the universe has turned against me....my family tolerate me only because their blood runs in my veins ..they don't support ,care nor love me ...I've attempted to commit suicide more than twice ...and I can't defeat these thought hence I'm still living with the people I'm forced to call family

2 months, 3 weeks ago
Mazzet

hy springster ...I always feel lonely ,,like I'm trapped in a cage alone with the monsters in my mind... I feel like the universe has turned against me....my family tolerate me only because their blood runs in my veins ..they don't support ,care nor love me ...I've attempted to commit suicide more than twice ...and I can't defeat these thought hence I'm still living with the people I'm forced to call family

2 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

hy springster my boyfriend n i have been trying for a baby two monthes back i took a pregnancy test and its said invalid but am going on ma periods normal but somtymes i feel lyk puking what is de meaning of all of this?

3 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, perhaps you can take a pregnancy test again after a week or so. If you are still having the same problem you can always go to your nearest doctor or clinic for a pregnancy test.

3 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Hi guys I'm mami when I was doing grade 11 I fell pregnant an I didn't wat a baby so I had an arbotion so I CNT live my life to the fullest what should I do?

3 months, 1 week ago

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Anonymous

Go see a therapist

3 months, 1 week ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, we're so sorry that you had to go through something like this. You should know that you have absolutely nothing to feel guilty about. It's totally normal to be feeling emotional at this point. The most important thing for you to do is to have some support around you and for you to have someone you can trust with your feelings. Also consider speaking to the counsellors at Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information. All the best Springster.

3 months ago
Mamntungwa

I am new here don't know what is going on

4 months ago
Anonymous

I am new here don't know what is going on

4 months ago
Finbond

Hi guys I want to share my illtreated by my family they says I must not talk to my friends n they says I must play alone but my sisters n brothers must play n they says I must not eat plz talk to me so I could forget them plz. Love u all.

5 months, 2 weeks ago

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Anonymous

Firstly forgive them fr their unacceptable treatment towards u,secondly read ur bible radomly bcuz God duznt desert his own children.pray n dnt expect rapis changes u shuld be patient eventually God will make a way fr u

3 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

I need friends asap like I'm dying of boredom, I'm also a introvert

5 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being an introvert. Spending time alone and indoors is not a bad thing at all. However, if you do feel like you need to get out more then maybe you could consider joining a book club, extra mural activity or any society at school or in the neighbourhood that offers something you enjoy. That way you'll get to meet new people while doing some fun stuff you enjoy and getting better at something you're good at like a sport or cultural activity.

5 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

A week ago I was feeling lonely bcz my friend was starting to group herself with other girls at school but just after two days I realised that I didn't come for friends at school but I came to succeed my dream not friends who have expired😢now I'm making new friends and having a new and good status...

6 months ago

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Finbond

Good

5 months, 2 weeks ago
Finbond

N I would be ur friend n my name is QUEEN KB 2828

5 months, 2 weeks ago
sakeenahadoni

Never ever feel lonely because know that there is someone by your side

6 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

This is so true!❤️️

6 months, 3 weeks ago
Finbond

It is the truth to us all in the world!!!!!!!!!!

5 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

I sometimes feel lonely and left out because 3 years back I was diagnosed with HIV and now I feel worthless and I sometimes have suicidal thoughts so I don't know if I'm going through depression or what because I get mad easily and I'm sometimes quite and down.

6 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

HI Carousel, don't forget to use the support system we mentioned to you earlier. It's totally normal for you to be feeling down, but you need to talk to someone to cope with those feelings. Remember your support system can also include your school counsellor or an older relative. You can also always call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

6 months, 3 weeks ago
Finbond

What Babe

5 months, 2 weeks ago
Elisa

Hi there! That's what happened to me back in 2010 when I was diagnosed,but the love and support from family kept me alive and living a positive life.

1 month, 4 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hi there! That's what happened to me back in 2010 when I was diagnosed,but the love and support from family kept me alive and living a positive life.

1 month, 4 weeks ago
Lie

M 23 year old...I need help ma family don't love me they treat lyk a visit even ma mummy treat me lyk m not her child,m always lonely crying I even think 2 kill ma self coz I don't see any reason 2 live in this world.. Even ma lil sister don't rspct me now n t really hurt..n I decide 2 leave ma home n I don't feel 2 go back there...I fail even sleep at the night n that make me sick

6 months, 4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, we're so sorry to hear that you are going through so much. Thank you for reaching out to us. It's really brave of you to do so. We feel like it's really important to talk to and communicate your feelings to your loved ones. Perhaps you should communicate these feelings to the people who you feel hurt by because they might not know that they are causing you so much distress. We understand that it would be difficult to do so, but it could help save you and them from losing you. Maybe even talk to another trusted relative, teacher or school counsellor and they might be able to help the situation better. Another great place to go to is Childline SA.They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information. Take care of yourself Springster and know that you are loved.

6 months, 4 weeks ago
NkosazanaKatie

Hi Springsters. I need closure and help to forgive my grandma. She raised me and I thank her for that. She used to treat me like a slave, doing all the house chores and prevented me from socialising. My older sister and I don't have the same father. So my grandma favours her than me cause she liked her dad, she and my dad have issues and she hates him. Now I feel like I'm being punished due to her sentiments about my dad. I just hate her for all that.

7 months ago