Anonymous

hy springster ...I always feel lonely ,,like I'm trapped in a cage alone with the monsters in my mind... I feel like the universe has turned against me....my family tolerate me only because their blood runs in my veins ..they don't support ,care nor love me ...I've attempted to commit suicide more than twice ...and I can't defeat these thought hence I'm still living with the people I'm forced to call family

1 day, 11 hours ago
Mazzet

hy springster ...I always feel lonely ,,like I'm trapped in a cage alone with the monsters in my mind... I feel like the universe has turned against me....my family tolerate me only because their blood runs in my veins ..they don't support ,care nor love me ...I've attempted to commit suicide more than twice ...and I can't defeat these thought hence I'm still living with the people I'm forced to call family

1 day, 11 hours ago
Anonymous

hy springster my boyfriend n i have been trying for a baby two monthes back i took a pregnancy test and its said invalid but am going on ma periods normal but somtymes i feel lyk puking what is de meaning of all of this?

1 week, 5 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, perhaps you can take a pregnancy test again after a week or so. If you are still having the same problem you can always go to your nearest doctor or clinic for a pregnancy test.

1 week, 4 days ago
Anonymous

Hi guys I'm mami when I was doing grade 11 I fell pregnant an I didn't wat a baby so I had an arbotion so I CNT live my life to the fullest what should I do?

2 weeks, 1 day ago

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Anonymous

Go see a therapist

1 week, 5 days ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, we're so sorry that you had to go through something like this. You should know that you have absolutely nothing to feel guilty about. It's totally normal to be feeling emotional at this point. The most important thing for you to do is to have some support around you and for you to have someone you can trust with your feelings. Also consider speaking to the counsellors at Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information. All the best Springster.

1 week, 1 day ago
Mamntungwa

I am new here don't know what is going on

1 month ago
Anonymous

I am new here don't know what is going on

1 month ago
Finbond

Hi guys I want to share my illtreated by my family they says I must not talk to my friends n they says I must play alone but my sisters n brothers must play n they says I must not eat plz talk to me so I could forget them plz. Love u all.

2 months, 3 weeks ago

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Anonymous

Firstly forgive them fr their unacceptable treatment towards u,secondly read ur bible radomly bcuz God duznt desert his own children.pray n dnt expect rapis changes u shuld be patient eventually God will make a way fr u

2 weeks, 3 days ago
Anonymous

I need friends asap like I'm dying of boredom, I'm also a introvert

2 months, 4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being an introvert. Spending time alone and indoors is not a bad thing at all. However, if you do feel like you need to get out more then maybe you could consider joining a book club, extra mural activity or any society at school or in the neighbourhood that offers something you enjoy. That way you'll get to meet new people while doing some fun stuff you enjoy and getting better at something you're good at like a sport or cultural activity.

2 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

A week ago I was feeling lonely bcz my friend was starting to group herself with other girls at school but just after two days I realised that I didn't come for friends at school but I came to succeed my dream not friends who have expired😢now I'm making new friends and having a new and good status...

3 months, 1 week ago

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Finbond

Good

2 months, 3 weeks ago
Finbond

N I would be ur friend n my name is QUEEN KB 2828

2 months, 3 weeks ago
sakeenahadoni

Never ever feel lonely because know that there is someone by your side

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

This is so true!❤️️

3 months, 3 weeks ago
Finbond

It is the truth to us all in the world!!!!!!!!!!

2 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

I sometimes feel lonely and left out because 3 years back I was diagnosed with HIV and now I feel worthless and I sometimes have suicidal thoughts so I don't know if I'm going through depression or what because I get mad easily and I'm sometimes quite and down.

3 months, 4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

HI Carousel, don't forget to use the support system we mentioned to you earlier. It's totally normal for you to be feeling down, but you need to talk to someone to cope with those feelings. Remember your support system can also include your school counsellor or an older relative. You can also always call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

3 months, 3 weeks ago
Finbond

What Babe

2 months, 3 weeks ago
Lie

M 23 year old...I need help ma family don't love me they treat lyk a visit even ma mummy treat me lyk m not her child,m always lonely crying I even think 2 kill ma self coz I don't see any reason 2 live in this world.. Even ma lil sister don't rspct me now n t really hurt..n I decide 2 leave ma home n I don't feel 2 go back there...I fail even sleep at the night n that make me sick

4 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, we're so sorry to hear that you are going through so much. Thank you for reaching out to us. It's really brave of you to do so. We feel like it's really important to talk to and communicate your feelings to your loved ones. Perhaps you should communicate these feelings to the people who you feel hurt by because they might not know that they are causing you so much distress. We understand that it would be difficult to do so, but it could help save you and them from losing you. Maybe even talk to another trusted relative, teacher or school counsellor and they might be able to help the situation better. Another great place to go to is Childline SA.They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information. Take care of yourself Springster and know that you are loved.

4 months ago
NkosazanaKatie

Hi Springsters. I need closure and help to forgive my grandma. She raised me and I thank her for that. She used to treat me like a slave, doing all the house chores and prevented me from socialising. My older sister and I don't have the same father. So my grandma favours her than me cause she liked her dad, she and my dad have issues and she hates him. Now I feel like I'm being punished due to her sentiments about my dad. I just hate her for all that.

4 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Hi guys I'm very sad because why my true friend i trust i told her everything about me and my bf and things what is she doing she is telling my staff that is. Not mean to tell her friends now. Im so sad and angry i Trust her i give her everything that she ask from me now. I don't no what to do because i love and care much for her guys. What must i do guys. I need comments guys plz before its to lite

4 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Lottering, sorry for what you are going through. Sometimes people can be unkind and unfair to us in life and that's really uncool. You should consider telling your friend what you felt about what she did. See how she responds and decide if you want o forgive her. It's really good to share details about your life, but try to be more careful about what you share and who you share it with.

4 months, 1 week ago
Finbond

what did u say

2 months, 3 weeks ago
Skylor

Hi guys I'm very sad because why my true friend i trust i told her everything about me and my bf and things what is she doing she is telling my staff that is. Not mean to tell her friends now. Im so sad and angry i Trust her i give her everything that she ask from me now. I don't no what to do because i love and care much for her guys. What must i do guys. I need comments guys plz before its to lite

4 months, 3 weeks ago

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Finbond

Sorry

2 months, 3 weeks ago
MAMELLO20

hey.....life hasn't been perfect lately....im forever crying and im even planning to take my own life😭i nolonger have a relationship with my family....starting with my mother....my older sister and my little sister....everytime wen I try opening up to someone.....all I do is crying.....I'm hopeless...I nolonger see the reason of living....I'm tired spiritually,physically and emotionally...💔 I really need help😪😭

4 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Kgaugelo20, thank you for being brave enough to share your troubles with us here at Springster. Life and family relationships can be really tough at times. However, tough times do not last. Please take the time to talk to an older sibling, aunt, mentor or teacher. This is important to help you with everything that is making you feel sad, lonely and helpless. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information. All the best Springster!

4 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

I'm 21 years old no friends problem is I've always been very shy so I cudnt myk friends or ,sumtyms I wud push people away who would try to get close to me ,because I felt I would bore them off coz I neva have anything to say ,but now I c da importance of having friends I really need a friend but at this age 21 it's very difficult any advice on how I can make friends at this age.

5 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Nwabee, we know Springsters who are the same age as you and have felt the same way as you do. You shouldn't worry. What are your interests? Maybe you can join a dance class, go to the library, visit the park or something like that. If you can't figure that out, maybe you can check out our article in the link below. It tells you how you can find friends online. Copy and paste it. We think it will help you. Good luck! http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/meet-your-bestie-facebook/

5 months ago
nwabee

I'm 21 years old no friends problem is I've always been very shy so I cudnt myk friends or ,sumtyms I wud push people away who would try to get close to me ,because I felt I would bore them off coz I neva have anything to say ,but now I c da importance of having friends I really need a friend but at this age 21 it's very difficult any advice on how I can make friends at this age.

5 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Nwabee, we know Springsters who are the same age as you and have felt the same way as you do. You shouldn't worry. What are your interests? Maybe you can join a dance class, go to the library, visit the park or something like that. If you can't figure that out, maybe you can check out our article in the link below. It tells you how you can find friends online. Copy and paste it. We think it will help you. Good luck! http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/meet-your-bestie-facebook/

4 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

hey everyone. I am currently going through a lot in life. I am constantly sad and lonely. And ryt now I think it is safe to say my sadness has turned into depression. I sleep after 3am every night and lately I've noticed that I am having suicidal thoughts.l went to my nearest clinic to ask for help but I wasn't noticed. plz help me coz I know l am tougher than this.

5 months, 1 week ago
Sennysah

Hey springster I am 21 years I don't know how I feel.i do have friends but I don't feel comfortable when am with them I only feel loved nd appreciated when am with my family.

5 months, 2 weeks ago

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Finbond

Believe in ur self girl/boy woman/man

2 months, 3 weeks ago