haehae

My friend a.)mistakely hit my friend [] lunch they dont talk any its terrible we don hang out as much plz help springster i dont know what to do?????ūüė£ūüė£ūüė£ūüė£‚ėĻūüė≠ūüė≠ūüė≠ūüė≠ūüė≠ūüė•ūüė•

5 months, 2 weeks ago
koketso22

Sometimes they can wear cool clothes and you don't have ... how must you feel?

8 months, 1 week ago
Mpho

I have friends but the problem is that there is some conflicts between two of them,so I had to intervene and help them sort their differences but it's getting worse recently they had a huge fight and as always I had to step in and save them from the embarrassment they were causing Sometimes I just think that God is using me to help others as they listen to me Um like a pillar of strength cause without me there is a huge chaos What can I do to help them get over their differences cause truly speaking Um a petsona with short temper and I have anger issues Plz help me

8 months, 2 weeks ago
TammyGee

Who of your friends are true to u behind your back...the way the workd is today yoooor trust no one

8 months, 2 weeks ago
rabie

hy guys ... so my best friend got cheated on by his boyfriend ( which is my classmate) ... I knew about it but didn't tell her because it was during the exams . . so when she found out that I knew all along she got angry at me and ignored me for a while .... but now we are cool , yet I ain't sure if she is pretending or not she is still my friend in heart and I love her a lot

9 months, 2 weeks ago

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Anonymous

If y'all are cool now there's nothing to worry about. The only thing you could be worried about is if she's changed her attitude towards you , then it could be possible that she's pretending . Good luck!ūüíē

9 months, 1 week ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hi Rabie. Thanks for sharing your comment. That can be a very difficult situation to find yourself in and I'm certain you were confused about whether or not to share that information with her or not. I'm glad that you were able to make up and if you feel as though things are still awkward between the two of you here's an article you can read for advice http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/kiss-and-make/

8 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hey guys so me && my frend hve known each other for a very very long tym ,,so about a month ago she went wif me to a party ,,she didn't tell her mom whre she was ,,I told her to ,but she refused... so we got drunk and I decided thats its best if I slept over at the frends house(whre da party was)we wanted to take her home but she refused... so the morng came && when she went home ...she blamed me and her mom sent me a very bad voicenote ...I stayed away frm her & stuff ...she always gossips about me by others and thy tell me ...i dnt wanna do any thing but wot is the reason for her acting this way?

9 months, 2 weeks ago

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Michy15

I think she wanted to end your friendship but se didn't know how or she is jealous or you did something she didn't like be the bigger person go to ta talk to her

9 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Reasons are because she kinda feels like you've neglected her after you heard the bad voice note. Usually friends remain friends even after an adult/parent comes between them. So letting her go just like that made her angry && she decided to find new friends && gossip about you. But y'all could fix things , its just a silly mistake y'all made. Good luck though!

9 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

She obviously isn't mature enough to take the blame herself.

9 months ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hi MAKES. Thanks for your comment. It's unfortunate that your friend didn't speak to her mother before the party to set expectations. Her mother can only believe what she says if she doesn't hear both sides of the story. I would recommend you consider your friendship with her and see whether it benefits you to continue being her friend if she's dishonest and get you into trouble.

8 months, 3 weeks ago
Kerkhood

Hello

9 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello Khumbulani. Hello and welcome to Springster.

8 months, 3 weeks ago
Yolisa

This is Beautiful

9 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

HI Springster, thank you.

9 months, 3 weeks ago
Munchie2001

Hie ladies....I have friends so basically we all four. I love my friends but am worried because the other two alaars

10 months, 1 week ago

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Munchie2001

I love my friends but am worried because the other two do things together...I mean school work,its like we don't exist when it comes to school work because they wanna pass alone

10 months, 1 week ago
RockAngel

I like this

10 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Thanks for reading Nicole.com

10 months ago
Lindy

I agree it is nice to have your own crew , you just never get bored

10 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi thexy. Thanks for reading our story!

10 months ago
Anonymous

My friend and i did something wrong toghether but I alone had 2 face the consequence after that we didn't speak 2 each other for 3 and a half months after that we became friends again but I'm really confused because what we did still haunts me and she goes on with live as if nothing happed I'm so confused do I stay or leave that friendship and I also really like and love her what do I do gays

10 months, 1 week ago

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luigi

That's badūüėüūüėüūüėü

10 months, 1 week ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hi F1, thanks for sharing your comment with us. Friends don't throw one another under the bus when something bad happens. She should have owned up to her part whatever it was. It seems as though it still has an effect on you and I don't know if you continue this friendship with her because it seems as though she'll let you take the blame if anything happens in the future. Friends should inspire one another to do better and not do bad things.

10 months, 1 week ago
Rachel

I was telling myself that she loves me but I was wrong

10 months, 2 weeks ago

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luigi

The worst mistake we've ever made is to think that other people think the same as we think...ūüėä

10 months, 1 week ago
May500

Hi....So there's this guy; actually he is my crush...So we've been chatting for weeks and i really like him; the thing is he is a player and i really love him....So should i date with him or not???....plz help me

10 months, 2 weeks ago

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Lerato

Gv him a chance plz

10 months, 2 weeks ago
Ndiwenhle

you know the same thing happened to me but you know i regretted knowing him coz once a guy knows u have a crush on him he is all over and he decides to date you just for the heck of it just to make you ease up and he plays you too but maybe you should give it a shot and see what happens

10 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Ur lucky that your chatting with your crush, baby girl change him make him your man throw his player attitude in the bin make him your man! +

9 months, 2 weeks ago
Lee21

My friends mean everything to me..we've been friends for years..we love each other..we support one another n most importantly we care about each other a lot

10 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Lee, that sounds like an awesome friendship group!

10 months, 2 weeks ago
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BUBAH

They dont judge me for being who i am.. They are supportive They care for everybody They also want whats best for everyone

10 months, 2 weeks ago
JőĻ—āa-M—ē–ĹengŌÖ

Very nice

10 months, 2 weeks ago
Faarah

Is so nice

10 months, 2 weeks ago
Bricks

I chose friends with only one thing in their mind they always want to succeed in life which is what I also want

10 months, 2 weeks ago

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tjuku

Yes that's true

10 months, 2 weeks ago
Lerato

Wow

10 months, 2 weeks ago