Mpumeh.H

I started having sex at a Early age i was 15 infect I didn't know about sex my sisters used to tell me it paing and staff my bf asked me nicely I told him I'm not ready but he didn't listen then boom but sometimes you can't control you feelings so yah

1 day, 4 hours ago
Anonymous

Hi guys Me and my bf had sex last weekend for the first time Well for me as a virgin it didnt hurt much nd i didn't bleed or so nd he was like deep in Is this normal or not??

1 month ago

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Anonymous

I think its Normal Coz I have Sex Last tym with some gal She TLD me tht it is 1st tym........when we done I also expected some blood or something but....Boom!! nothing

2 weeks, 5 days ago
MS

Hi guys Me and my bf had sex last weekend for the first time Well for me as a virgin it didnt hurt much nd i didn't bleed or so nd he was like deep in Is this normal or not??

1 month ago
Maz21

Hey guys. My boyfriend and I have been dating for. A while and we are sexual active. We've been having unprotected sex and I'm worried but we've both decided to go get tested. What should I do? Should I be worried? Please help!

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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K94

No don't be worried just trust your self.and you have to wait for anything for test don't be suppressed

1 month ago
Alick

Yes its true

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Mellow

Im 18 years old this year and I've dated more 4 guys for the past 6 years meaning some of the relationships I had never lasted for more than 3 months...The longest relationship I can say I had I dated my last boyfriend for 4 years and none of this guys touched me I'm still a virgin. Me and my 4 year ex broke up because he had trust issues... He said he hated the fact that I get to b around boys and he doesn't like dat.....but what he did was,,he wanted to date my cousin at same time he was with me. When he was with his friends he told them that he doesn't really know what he was looking at when he told me he loved me ....It didn't even hurt me because I know I haven't opened my thick thighs to any1... Right now I'm single because I'm starting to think that all this who want me just want sex from me I dbt know what to do..

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Springster, thank you for sharing. Don't let anyone make you feel like you have to have sex when you are not ready. The right time to have sex is when you feel ready.

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Kumukani

Nice

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Lolorh

My name is zee. On the 2nd of January 2017 my uncle who is from my mothers side and he is 2 or 3 years older then me cause im 18 now I was 17 at that time. He came to visit for the festive.He tryed to rape me. The first person I told was my Brother and father we were all scared to tell my mother because im really her favorite ,she will say i made it up. My dad is the one who told her. Then she called a meeting. The first words she said broke my heart. She said "It would off been better if he did it cause I wanted it too. I'm busy wearing shorts." One day she said She didn't want a baby girl she only wanted boys. Theres alot that has been going on, that really proves to me that she doesn't like me. My dad has always been the best. How my Father treats all the things he does for me are the things that my mother should do. Also my Father can realize everything. Without my Father im nothing. My God please keep him for me.

2 months ago

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Hope

It's okay baby gal they say happy are those who feel like freedom never ends even though it takes three years it's fine always know that gods plans are the best

1 month, 3 weeks ago
Gabi - Moderator

Thank you for sharing this with us. It Is incredibly brave of you to take this first step in speaking out and telling us about your situation. It is important for you to know that what's happening is not right and is in no way your fault. Speaking out to seek help and advice can help to change the situation so that in time you can begin to heal. Try speaking to an adult you trust like an aunty or cousin or teacher. We are sorry you are having to go through this experience alone. Unfortunately, we are an online engagement platform and cannot talk to you directly, however, please call Childline SA. They are a confidential support service and will offer you help and advice including counselling over the phone, online or (if you would prefer) in person. You don't need to give them your name and you can contact them any time of the day or night. They are here to help you through this tough time. Contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. You can also check out their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za for more information. Please do not feel you need to deal with this alone.

1 month, 1 week ago
Anonymous

My name is Zenhlanhla im 18 years old. On the second *2 January 2017 when I was happy starting n ready to start my Matric. A uncle from my mothers side about 2 or 3 years older then me came to visited. I've never seen him. That day we were watching a movie him and my two brothers which im the oldest one and I went to sleep with my younger brother late around 11pm or 12pm. The next thing I woke up nacked when he was about to rape me. Same time I woke up my older Brother and thenI went

2 months ago

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K94

What did you do next to having protection

1 month ago
Anonymous

Hey guy im 17 yrz....few months ago I had sex with my bf for the first tym n it was painful n he wants us 2 try again buh im not sure if I shld try again bcz im scared of the pain

2 months ago

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Knowmusarh

I'm Not Trying To Pressurise Yuu But It Won't Hurt Anymore

1 month, 2 weeks ago
busiegh

hi guys can i get pregnant 6days after my menstruation?plz hlp ladies

2 months ago

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Anonymous

Yes you can but there's an extremely low chance of you getting pregnant

2 months ago
Maz21

Yes you can! You can get pregnant at any time hun

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

as a 16 year old girl ..is it safe to share a bed with my dad at night when mom is not around??

2 months, 1 week ago

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wez@

girl I don't think its right if it makes u feel uncomfortable then u shouldn't ...cause u don't know what your dads intentions are

2 months ago
Anonymous

girl I don't think its right if it makes u feel uncomfortable then u shouldn't ...cause u don't know what your dads intentions are

2 months ago
Rosey

as a 16 year old girl ..is it safe to share a bed with my dad at night when mom is not around??

2 months, 1 week ago

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Anonymous

If you feel safe you can ... But if he makes you feel uncomfortable then don't especially if he's not your biological father cause what will happen if he gets horny in the middle of the night ... He might wanna have sexual intercouse

2 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

he's my biological dad....

2 months, 1 week ago
Rosey

he's my biological dad....

2 months, 1 week ago
Bae_bee

Then feel free to but if he gives you hints that he has some kinda interest in you ... Report that to your mom asap

2 months ago
Anonymous

I love sex just like your first boyfriend

2 months, 1 week ago
Dukesoul2

I love sex just like your first boyfriend

2 months, 1 week ago

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Rosey

lets meet then😉

2 months, 1 week ago
Lolo

Wow, am a virgin and most of the time i think abt sex am not sure if am ready or not, but since i read Zinzi I know what i want now I'll wait till am alder , ready and sure abt what i want..

2 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

i think Zinzi should have said No becoz he was destroying her and there are better guyz out there.

2 months, 1 week ago
thakgi

Im aslo being used by my ex...after we had sex he ignored me. I ddnt have anyone to talk to and my hurt is still broken

2 months, 2 weeks ago

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Anonymous

Well I also think tht she should have waited

2 months, 1 week ago
K94

The thing happen to us we a boy .we love girl and when you had sex you feel like oooh my gosh !!! Yoooh and you don't think to go back

1 month ago
pununu

I also ft used ****

2 months, 2 weeks ago
pununu

the very same thing happened to me .....u also felt uses nd taken advantage of

2 months, 2 weeks ago