Anonymous

My name is Olwethu I'm 16yrs old my mother don't want me to have a boyfriend but my sister wandile has a boyfriend and she is 16 too and my mother allow her to have a boyfriend I think my mother don't love me she love my sister the most

2 weeks, 2 days ago
Anonymous

Plz advice me My boyfriend asked me to have sex with him But am scared Idk wat to do but I really want to do it but am scared wat if he leaves me

3 weeks, 2 days ago

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Some

Go for it gal I've already done it

2 days, 1 hour ago
ntombi

Plz advice me My boyfriend asked me to have sex with him But am scared Idk wat to do but I really want to do it but am scared wat if he leaves me

3 weeks, 2 days ago
Shanty

You shouldn't do things became u want to make ur partner happy You should do things when you are ready to do them

3 weeks, 4 days ago
Nonhle_Stamper

What you must do is to do what makes you Happy and what your heart wants but i'm also in a same situation right now two guys wanna sleep with me should I agree??

2 months ago
Nonhle_Stamper_Jx

Wow stay strong honey!!

2 months ago
Anonymous

I relate...but I am thankful that your story made me feel dat I am not alone

4 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Thandow1999, yes you are not alone. So glad that the story made you realise this!

4 months ago
Seela

my story is exactly as yours but the most painful thing is I lost my virginity Wen I was 13

4 months, 1 week ago
sakeenahadoni

Thanks I will tell my friends to stop dating big people and having sex in a young age

4 months, 4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Sakeenah, we think it's wonderful that you care about your friends and that you want to advise them, but remember that you don't want to come off as judgemental or controlling. We can always advise people if we know that they need the advice but we must remember that we cannot tell people what to do. Thank you though Springster😊.

4 months, 3 weeks ago
Alick

Thanks alot because i have learnt something

5 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Thank you Springster, it's our pleasure!

4 months, 3 weeks ago
Candy_leigh2000

Zinzi's advice is very useful, but to for me it's very late. I have let him use me and destroy me and I have suffered from guilt everyday of my life since then.If I'd seen this article a few months back, I'd have taken a different decision.

5 months, 1 week ago

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KAY-EE_3

you can still change it's nvr too late. ...u cannot be in an unhappy relationship for gud

4 months ago
Masoso

Thanx for the advise zinzi

5 months, 2 weeks ago
M357489-

Hey guys i stopped the prevention injection in August last year nd have been having unprotected sex i recently started having my periods becausing i wasnt having them for months. Iv been menstruating for two weeks now i jst want to know when will my normal cycle start?

5 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hey guys i stopped the prevention injection in August last year nd have been having unprotected sex i recently started having my periods becausing i wasnt having them for months. Iv been menstruating for two weeks now i jst want to know when will my normal cycle start?

5 months, 2 weeks ago
Mpumeh.H

I started having sex at a Early age i was 15 infect I didn't know about sex my sisters used to tell me it paing and staff my bf asked me nicely I told him I'm not ready but he didn't listen then boom but sometimes you can't control you feelings so yah

6 months ago
Anonymous

Hi guys Me and my bf had sex last weekend for the first time Well for me as a virgin it didnt hurt much nd i didn't bleed or so nd he was like deep in Is this normal or not??

7 months, 1 week ago

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Anonymous

I think its Normal Coz I have Sex Last tym with some gal She TLD me tht it is 1st tym........when we done I also expected some blood or something but....Boom!! nothing

6 months, 3 weeks ago
Vic

Yep but it can shows that both of u were ready and we knw how to deal with sex.i can just say ur bf know his story. Isn't a rough rider.

5 months, 2 weeks ago
MS

Hi guys Me and my bf had sex last weekend for the first time Well for me as a virgin it didnt hurt much nd i didn't bleed or so nd he was like deep in Is this normal or not??

7 months, 1 week ago
Maz21

Hey guys. My boyfriend and I have been dating for. A while and we are sexual active. We've been having unprotected sex and I'm worried but we've both decided to go get tested. What should I do? Should I be worried? Please help!

7 months, 2 weeks ago

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K94

No don't be worried just trust your self.and you have to wait for anything for test don't be suppressed

7 months, 1 week ago
Vic

No not really.

5 months, 2 weeks ago
Vashti

Yes I think you should be worried, STDs are something you should be worried about because most of them are permanent, can't get rid of them, when you have other partners in the future you will have to tell them that you have an STD for the rest of your life. There's also unwanted pregnancy, unless you want to get pregnant. If you don't, Please use protection.

5 months, 1 week ago
Alick

Yes its true

7 months, 2 weeks ago
Mellow

Im 18 years old this year and I've dated more 4 guys for the past 6 years meaning some of the relationships I had never lasted for more than 3 months...The longest relationship I can say I had I dated my last boyfriend for 4 years and none of this guys touched me I'm still a virgin. Me and my 4 year ex broke up because he had trust issues... He said he hated the fact that I get to b around boys and he doesn't like dat.....but what he did was,,he wanted to date my cousin at same time he was with me. When he was with his friends he told them that he doesn't really know what he was looking at when he told me he loved me ....It didn't even hurt me because I know I haven't opened my thick thighs to any1... Right now I'm single because I'm starting to think that all this who want me just want sex from me I dbt know what to do..

7 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Springster, thank you for sharing. Don't let anyone make you feel like you have to have sex when you are not ready. The right time to have sex is when you feel ready.

7 months, 2 weeks ago