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Lebo

Hey ladies, I need help please. Me and my partner we want children.as ladies please help we have been trying.

1 year, 7 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Seek, we'd suggest you visit your doctor or your nearest clinic to check on your reproductive health and if everything is okay there. Remember that sometimes getting pregnant has a lot to do with timing. So make sure you are having sex on the days that you are ovulating. This will increase the chances of you getting pregnant. We hope this helps Springster.

1 year, 7 months ago
mandy

As anonymous said you need to visit a clinic

9 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Adoption

7 months, 2 weeks ago
ruby-ann

My plan to get good marks is to stay afterschool in school for extra lessons in the subjects that I struggle in .

1 year, 8 months ago

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Anonymous

So?

7 months, 2 weeks ago
Shawwtty

Hi everyone in new to this group I think I might be pregnant am I'm not ready to be a mom can stameter help to get rid of the 3 day pregnancy

1 year, 8 months ago

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Shawwtty

guys pls help me ASAP

1 year, 8 months ago
Nokubonga43

Am also 17 years old and am 5months pregnant your story is the same like yours exactly the way you wrote it straight forward 😮😢😢

1 year, 8 months ago
nana-1233kuna

I will read a lot so I can pass and go to high school

1 year, 8 months ago
Smirk

I juss had sex wid my man two weeks ago just after I finished my periods then 15days passed I started having periods and they I'm starting a second week but I'm still on periods! Can somebody tell me what is wrong with me?

1 year, 9 months ago
Funeka

Hi guyz i am funeka i am 18,I have read all your storys thy are so touching .The thing is tht i have not been on my priods since last month ,i think i 'm pregnant . And the problem with tht is tht my family is too strict u cant even talk to thm and i just lost my mom last year she was the one who i used to talk to about everything .i do not want to lose my bby .

1 year, 9 months ago

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Nola

You should get a pregnancy test done, sorry about your mom.

1 year, 9 months ago
Shawwtty

ure story is similar to my own

1 year, 8 months ago
Anonymous

Hi Can i get pregnant if i had seks the day before my period

1 year, 10 months ago

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Anonymous

If you did not use protection during sex..YES you can get pregnant But to be sure you have to take pregnancy test

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Hey guys am 18 yrs old I passed my matric last year with bachelor sadly I took a gap year becouse l was not sure about which course I must choose. Next year am going to Varsity, bad news are that I just found out that I am pregnant I was so scared when 2 lines appear on the test. I cried non stop.. I took my foun and call my friend to tell her what am going through . She comfort me and I felt better..after that I call my boyfriend he was so shocked and and feel sorry.He comfort me also begging me to try to be strong for the same of our baby. Wow these two really show love to me..although its very hard for me to accept that am gonna be a mother. But now i have questions that I cnt even answer. I have 6 sisters they all have children and I they suffer from raising them .My parents are unemployed..they also struggling raising us .how will they react when finding out that am pregnant?..oh they will stop me from going to Varsity next 😭😭 what about my dream?..What about my whole family what will they say cause they trusts me..

1 year, 10 months ago
Nana

Hey guys am 18 yrs old I passed my matric last year with bachelor sadly I took a gap year becouse l was not sure about which course I must choose. Next year am going to Varsity, bad news are that I just found out that I am pregnant I was so scared when 2 lines appear on the test. I cried non stop.. I took my foun and call my friend to tell her what am going through . She comfort me and I felt better..after that I call my boyfriend he was so shocked and and feel sorry.He comfort me also begging me to try to be strong for the same of our baby. Wow these two really show love to me..although its very hard for me to accept that am gonna be a mother. But now i have questions that I cnt even answer. I have 6 sisters they all have children and I they suffer from raising them .My parents are unemployed..they also struggling raising us .how will they react when finding out that am pregnant?..oh they will stop me from going to Varsity next 😭😭 what about my dream?..What about my whole family what will they say cause they trusts me..

1 year, 10 months ago
beauty

I was 17 and doing grade 11 when I fell pregnant... I tried to get information about terminating the pregnancy but I was too late. The thought of killing myself day crossed my mind,I never had someone who supported me, I became a topic on my community, family and close friends. I cried myself to sleep but still I never found comfort, the worse part was when the father of the baby I was carrying dined it. I felt like the world was felling down on my face with no one to turn too. I ran away from home but luckily my mother looked for me, so I went back home. She tried to support me but every time she looked at me with those shameful eyes I would look down. The tym on the other hand went fast..I passed my grade 11, then I went to grade 12 I went for two days because I started to feel like I can't take it any more..... I gave birth to this wonderful girl.... I went back to school after two weeks,i had to leave again because I had no one to look after my baby. My problem is that I was already registered for that year so I don't know what to do.... If anyone knows what I must do plz help because I really want to go back to school plz

1 year, 11 months ago
Anothando

Hy gyz am 15 and I started having sex last year and I think I made a big mistake because some of my age group girls are still virgins

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey Springster, we don't think you should feel so bad. Your choice to have sex should not be based on whether or not other people are virgins are not. Having sex is a personal choice and you don't approval from other girls to make it right.

1 year, 11 months ago
Barbie_slay1

It's okay not being a virgin. You felt like you were ready then it's okay be yourself bby girl

1 year, 10 months ago
Boontleyleidey

Do not compare yourself with your age group girls ...There's a reason behind every action right?. Live your life to the fullest and don't worry about people's doings and choices.. After all we not the same and do not think alike

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Hi ,im new im 15 years and i started having sex Last last years .3weeks back i had Sex with my boyfriend and we did not use a condom 💔i think im pregnant and im not ready to be a mother😭im too scared to tell anyone so what can i drink orr Eat ?

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Unknown1405, try not to panic at the moment. It's better to be sure about something before you start freaking out. We think you should first go to the doctor or clinic to get tested. If you don't want to go do that you can buy a pregnancy test at your nearest supermarket or pharmacy to test yourself in a private space. Please go get tested to be sure. Also, make sure that in future, you also use a pregnancy test or some other form of protection like the injection or the pill. If you are feeling a bit scared or confused at the moment or in future, you can call Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

Hi ,im new im 15 years and i started having sex Last last years .3weeks back i had Sex with my boyfriend and we did not use a condom 💔i think im pregnant and im not ready to be a mother😭im too scared to tell anyone so what can i drink our Eat ?

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Unknown1405, try not to panic at the moment. It's better to be sure about something before you start freaking out. We think you should first go to the doctor or clinic to get tested. If you don't want to go do that you can buy a pregnancy test at your nearest supermarket or pharmacy to test yourself in a private space. Please go get tested to be sure. Also, make sure that in future, you also use a pregnancy test or some other form of protection like the injection or the pill. If you are feeling a bit scared or confused at the moment or in future, you can call Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

I'm also 15 I'm will be giving birth next February so this year I'm praying that I could finish my grade 10 thn nxt year I do my grade 11 if I pass would it be wrong if I send my baby away to stay wit de father cz my parents are not willing on supporting me and my baby is it possible same time I give birth thn send my baby away will my baby be in harm even now my parents want me out of de house I have no where to go

1 year, 11 months ago
MaZ

Hey✨Every 1....it's short but true ,I'm really inspired of all the stories ii jst read.... I'm soo in love with this app....❤💗#power to teen mother's... spirit...girls🐾yu lead the way...

2 years, 1 month ago
Teddy_hr31

Hey. My name is Teddy and I am 20 years old. I was pregnant when I was 19 years and conceived this year in March. I am a single parent. I have a little support system. Had to quit college in order to raise my son. The father of my baby wants nothing to do with us. I'm job hunting so that I can support my baby because I feel like we are a burden to my mom. I sometimes enjoy being a mommy but at times its just to hard. Especially if you raising your baby alone😢😢

2 years, 3 months ago

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Anonymous

Teddy I know is painful to be single parent let that man ,,he doesn't care that her child need parent support , just love ur son ,,that child isnt stone he grow .just take care of itself n ur son

1 year, 11 months ago
Babe

Hi everybody😊

2 years, 3 months ago

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Anonymous

Hello,welcome Jessbaby07

2 years, 3 months ago
Thabo13

Hello Everyone I'm new here and I would love to make friends with the Springsters.

2 years, 3 months ago
Anathi

Hi guys

2 years, 2 months ago
Fezy

I was pregnant at 14 and it was this year my baby was born in April at school they told me to leave in February I didn't get the chance to write my 1st nd 2nd term exams they said I should come back 3rd term do u think I could pass while juggling my school work nd the baby

2 years, 3 months ago

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4211

Even if u were going to do it but 2 terms have/has passed u where were u going to get the mark meaning ur year mark could've been low n the baby on the other hand am sure it was hard. So how did u manage?

2 years, 3 months ago
Thabo13

Being pregnant at a very young age can be very challenging especially if u don't have any support system

2 years, 3 months ago
Anonymous

Hey Springster, we definitely think you have a chance at passing. Understand that it could be very difficult, but it will totally be worth it in the end. Try to make sure you have some support while doing this. If any of your relatives could help you while you finish school that would also be great. Always make sure to ask teachers and peers for advice when you need it.

1 year, 11 months ago
Bongi46

gal the first thing u must do is to stay way frm boys ad make new friends at ur new university

2 years, 3 months ago

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Anonymous

Thanks for tip Bongani46!

2 years, 3 months ago