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mercy326

Guys i have met this girl on facebook and i really like her she brings the good in me and we started dating and she ask nudes of me and she said she will also send of her what must i do must i send it or not

7 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi @mercy.Com Sometimes meeting people online is not good. You never know whom you are talking to. Sending someone nudes can have bad results at the end. If people end up sending them to each other it will not be good. In the future when you are looking for a job it might be hard. We advise you not to send nudes to other people Springster. Please read this article. https://za.heyspringster.com/sections/girl-stories/i-sent-pictures-boy/

6 months, 3 weeks ago
Twinkybear

Hey...I'm a lesbian and i can't approach girls Pls help me😢

7 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Springster, thanks for reaching out to us about this. Your feelings for other girls are totally normal, so don't feel embarrassed, ashamed or anything like that. Approaching people we like can be scary. Often it helps to begin by approaching them as a friend first and as time goes on you may feel more comfortable to be honest with them. If you don't feel ready, that's also still fine. Don't put any pressure on yourself. In the meantime, we would advise you to talk to people who can offer you some support. You can speak to the people at the Gay and Lesbian Network Helpline. They are available Friday to Sunday, 18:00 to 22:00 and you can contact them on their National Hotline:0 8 6 0 3 3 3 3 31 We hope this helps Springster.

6 months, 2 weeks ago
Skyronique

So if ur gay nd u knw u r confident abut it but u also know that ur parents wont allow it what do u do than?

7 months, 1 week ago

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Anonymous

Hey Springster, we're really glad that you're comfortable and confident despite the stigmas surrounding being gay. Remember that coming out is a very big deal, especially if you feel like you are in an unsafe environment where people aren't accepting. You don't have to rush yourself to tell your parents if you are not ready or if you are afraid they won't be accepting. If you don't feel ready to come out yet, that's also still fine. Don't put any pressure on yourself. In the meantime, we would advise you to talk to people who can offer you some support. You can speak to the people at the Gay and Lesbian Network Helpline. They are available Friday to Sunday, 18:00 to 22:00 and you can contact them on their National Hotline:0 8 6 0 3 3 3 3 31

7 months, 1 week ago
Nqobile

I think I'm bisexual coz I've dated guys in the past but now guys annoy me. I play soccer and I'm attracted to lesbians at gym😭 I currently have a boyfriend I used to be friends with in high school and we haven't spoken in 2months coz I've changed my no. The relationship has been a drag for me... What do I tell him?? I can't just leave him hanging. P.S: I've known him for 6 years (2 dating)

7 months, 1 week ago

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Anonymous

Hi Spring_440 Thank you for reaching out to us. We understand that you must be confused but try to relax. There is nothing wrong with being bisexual and it is not something you should be ashamed of. Communication is important in a relationship and being open as well. We suggest that you talk to your boyfriend and let him know how you feel. Approaching girls might not be easy for you but you can always start off as friends and as time goes on,let them know that you like them. Talking to someone you trust about this might help, it can be a teacher, friend, neighbour or sister. If there is no one you can always speak to the people at the Gay and Lesbian Network Helpline. They are available Friday to Sunday, 18:00 to 22:00 and you can contact them on their National Hotline:0 8 6 0 3 3 3 3 31 We hope this helps Springster.

6 months ago
Kaylanne

Its cool dont be ashamed of yourself be happy

7 months, 1 week ago

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Anonymous

We like your comment Springster!

6 months ago
Amy

Wow iam a Lesbain but I don't know how to control myself.Whenever I see a girl I fall in love this story touched me

7 months, 1 week ago
1993

How can I get the group on Facebook?

7 months, 2 weeks ago
NonkiiwySlayKinq0

💕 _I know exactly how you felt_ 💕

7 months, 2 weeks ago
Bliswell

I have taught myself to be myself I can't change who I am just to please other people in my life even my parents my life partner and friends I just have to simply live my life the way I am not to please the people in my life or who live around me#self love#self respect#live ur life

7 months, 3 weeks ago
Nosipho

Wat can I do plz help

7 months, 3 weeks ago
Nosipho

I'm also lesbian and there is this gal at my school who is also lesbian she asked us to date and now we are dating but sometimes when you see us you would hardly say we are not dating cos she sometimes ignore me or runaway from me and we never kissed before and sometimes I wish I could kiss her but I get nervous

7 months, 3 weeks ago

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Lerato

Then it means y'll aren't ready for each other

7 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

It means that u both not ready therefore u don't have to rush things just wait till a ryt time

7 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hi Alone, it's totally normal for you (and your girlfriend) to feel a little bit nervous or shy at the moment. That it is how it is with the beginning of almost every relationship. For two partners to overcome this stage, there needs to be a little more bonding between the two people. Overtime the both of you will start to feel a little bit more relaxed around each other. Also, see if you can tell her how you feel about her and let her know you'd like to bond more with her. We hope this will help and that things work out between the two of you. All the best Springster, and feel free to get back to us!

7 months, 3 weeks ago
Nosipho

Tnx guyz 4 ur opinions they really helped me especially yours Gabi , today we bonded and things went well and we ended up kissing

7 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hey Alone, we're so glad that you and your girlfriend were able to sort things out. We're happy when we know that you are happy!

7 months, 1 week ago
sweet

yooh

7 months, 4 weeks ago
AMG

Hello Guys

8 months ago

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AusiKgomotso

Helos

7 months, 4 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hi Springster

3 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

Maybe you should try to talk to her and tell her how you feel about her wearing short skirts

8 months ago

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Marvin

Sr Nana I wish I could help but u have to tell her how u feel ngaye kuzoksiza

7 months, 3 weeks ago
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Mbaly

I love what u have told my advise for is that keeping doing what makes u happy💕

8 months ago
Jess
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Shappire

Wow so inspiring

8 months, 1 week ago

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Janett

I really think you are inspiring to those who have the same feelings as you and at our school there is a teacher who is a lesbian and oh my god,he is really cool

8 months ago
Dolie

How does feel because me staying with Nomfundo my class mate she wears a short skirt all the times I feel like touching her or kissing her I don't know why to me now she is a distraction because every time I look at her I lose concentration🙈

8 months, 1 week ago

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mercy326

Well before i knew my cousin in my school i had a big crush on her and i still do but what i want to say is i also wanted to touch her coz everytime i see her i got butterflys and she is this beautiful girl i know in school so for now keep your hands for yourself maybe in the future u will get a chance to touch her

8 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Hi Springster, it's totally normal to have intense feelings of attraction towards someone, so don't be ashamed of anything. As long as you are respectful towards her and never touch her without her consent then all is good. Have you considered talking to her about how you feel about her. Give it some thought Springster :)

8 months ago
mercy326

Well my friend at school told her that i have a crush on her but i denied it coz i didnt know how to tell her that i have a crush on her

8 months ago
mercy326

Ok i have a story for u ...... When someone your age is in love with boys and u really like that girl and u will do anything to get that girl even when it means to give up your family will u do that well i never did that but if it means to give up my hole family i will if they don't accept me for who i am and if that girl can see that i am serious about her being my girlfriend if she tells me that she can be my half girlfriend than its fine coz i don't know how she will be coz its her first time being with a girl so i am gonna give her time to think ....... So peeps plz don't rush things

8 months, 1 week ago

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Anonymous

Hey Springster, gay relationships are the same as any other other relationships in the sense that you don't want to give your all to someone who might not be that interested in you. Only give your best if that person is also willing to give her best to you.

7 months, 4 weeks ago