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Anonymous

Hi im 22 and i have been living a lie ...i love girls but i have been pretending that i love boys ...and i never allow a guy im in a relationship with to touch me ... cause i dont feel comfortable being touched by a guy ...i make up rules to the relationship like uu not allowed to touch me ,kiss me,and have sex ...everything that goes with intimacy i dont want it .especially with a guy..when a guy tells me he loves me i say i love him too even through i feel nothing for him ..." the relationships"....which im not sure if i should call them that cause they is no intimacy or should i say no real love involved... i end up hurting the guy at the end and i enjoy hurting them ...note :the relationships last for only 1 or 3 months without even seeing the guy ....i have got involved with girls but secretly...i dont know what to call whats happening to me ...is it that im confused ...even my parents know that im lesbian cause thats what i told them and have accepted it ... but each time i try to come out they say i should not ...cause its not safe out there i might get raped or killed ...cause of who i am ...so im scared ... this is even the first time im talking about this ...im hurting inside ...sometimes i cry ...get angry for no reason..worse even think about committing suicide ALOT OF TIMES but try to ignore it and pray...please help me ...is they something wrong..I LOVE GIRLS I REALLY DO....thank you !!

6 days, 20 hours ago
Anonymous

Am scared to comeout n face the reality i like girls but am am in a relationship with a guy. Am dying alone secrectly this kills me How can i do to help me to comeout the guy wants to marry me n have kids i can't i need to comeout tell the world so he can believe me that am serious i cant marry him i wont be complete n happy if i marry him

4 weeks, 1 day ago
Sumba

Don't be scared what other people say end of the day it's your life do what would make u happy

1 month ago
OhSweetStuff

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1 month ago
Poorcheesegirl

Hey.... I am 18 years old an I seem to be confused with my gender... All my life I have been dating boys. But I seem to have this thing for girls. In my life I once kissed 2girls and the feeling I had was butterflies in my stomach. The only reason I don't wanna come out as to what I am is because every time I would say something about me loving other girls my friends tend to laugh at me and think am joking and I know my parents are never going to accept me for who I am but the love I have for girls :'( ❤

1 month, 1 week ago

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OhSweetStuff

Hey

1 month ago
Poorcheesegirl

Hey

1 month ago
Anonymous

Hi Emm..Well I have been attracted to boys all my life until last year December when one of my lesbian Friend told me she liked me . Everything changed we talked everyday an i began to notice that I liked her but it confuses me since I have been attracted to boys..Am scared to tell anyone because I have been judged a lot and am scared of people not accepting it ..What can I do cause i really like her

1 month, 1 week ago
Lebogang_20

Hey ❣ see I've been dating this guy for 3yrs now and i really love the guy.. well last year i met this girl from my previous school and we have been chatting since then, and feelings got caught there❤ i told her i have a boyfriend but i still love her and she didn't react very well with it... she told me that she's selfish and doesn't want to share me she just want it to be me and her...i haven't told my boyfriend I'm bisexual because I'm afraid that I'll lose him 😔 i love both of them just that i don't know what to do💔 please help

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Karabo

Am a bisexual people used to judge at school But am proud to be bisexual 😍😍😍😜

1 month, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hello I like girls and boys at the same time ,but there is something that seems to confuse me everytime . I am mostly attracted to girls , but in my area everyone says I have disgrace my whole family and the community. I wish I can be as brave as u 💔💔😢😢

1 month, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hey I like guys and girls but I have never been with a girl before I fantasize about been with a girl but I'm scared the people around me will disapprove of my "sexual preference" What should I do

2 months ago

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Anonymous

Hy Anonymous i think its for the best to accept your self as a bisexual and no need to hide your self because people always talk even if you can to good

2 months ago
Anonymous

Wow u took too much courage👑👑💓💓💔💖💖

2 months ago
Anonymous

Well I am scared to approach other people with the gender I have it is gay

2 months, 2 weeks ago
Relebogile

Hy I am quad well I am so happy that I found Springsteen because I am gay but I don't know how to look up to people like boys I can't confront them but this article said I must be proud not to be scared but I am scared to tell my father that I am gay it is really hard but I need help to tell him

2 months, 2 weeks ago

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H.E.S

Okay what i can say is that you really dont have to come out to your parents as yet do not push your self to do it now firsly you need to be independent financially because you dont know what he wii say . Advice see how he reacts about the lgbti people for example what he wii normally say when a gay person apppear on tv.

2 months, 1 week ago
Oplaycoo

Am also a lesbian. But I'm scared to approach gals. And I'm scared of pple.

2 months, 2 weeks ago

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Mavun

Oplaycoo you have the "what will people say" syndrome You don't need other people's approval to live your life do as it please you

2 months ago
AviweL

I like this story very much... But I also need some advice because I don't know if I am bio or am attracted to boys or girls only

2 months, 3 weeks ago

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H.E.S

Well you need to do some self introspection as to whether your feelings gravitates more the male or female who do you find more sexually attractive if its both you are definitely bisexual and the is nothing wrong with that

2 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

I like this story very much... But I also need some advice because I don't know if I am bio or am attracted to boys or girls only

2 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

Am also a lesbian but i can't come out because my family didn't understand these lesbianism at the same time i don't feel constable when it comes to ware dresses

2 months, 3 weeks ago
S.H.E

I'm bisexual I sometimes have a crush on my friend But I feel like i choose to be both

2 months, 3 weeks ago

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HER

Hi,I'm Khanyi would you like to talk

2 months, 3 weeks ago
Miyole

I am a lesbian too my life is a mess because some people laugh at me making fun of me but sometimes I just make something that makes me not listen to them such as cleaning I'll never tell my family because they won't understand that I am too attracted to girls.I was never attracted to boys ,I would really like to talk to big sis

2 months, 3 weeks ago

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H.E.S

Hi love the fact that you know who you are people will keep on talking about you but that should not hold you back from living a happy life and if your still in school don't worry about telling your parents now. Try to hang out around postive people you can trust god loves the way you are.

2 months, 1 week ago
BLue_rainbow_kid

Hey see my parents got me a therapist then she told me am asexual and am experiencing a stage phase as a teenager but I'm only like 18 I know What's good for me or not I'm bisexual and I can feel that ... but my parents don't want to accept that ..I really have deep feelings for girls I don't even know what to do

2 months, 3 weeks ago

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Miyole

That is why I don't want to tell my parents .My parents will be like that too #i support you girl🙏

2 months, 3 weeks ago