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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden this comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

1 year, 1 month ago
Anonymous

Am scared to comeout n face the reality i like girls but am am in a relationship with a guy. Am dying alone secrectly this kills me How can i do to help me to comeout the guy wants to marry me n have kids i can't i need to comeout tell the world so he can believe me that am serious i cant marry him i wont be complete n happy if i marry him

1 year, 2 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

1 year, 1 month ago
Sumba

Don't be scared what other people say end of the day it's your life do what would make u happy

1 year, 2 months ago
OhSweetStuff

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1 year, 2 months ago
Poorcheesegirl

Hey.... I am 18 years old an I seem to be confused with my gender... All my life I have been dating boys. But I seem to have this thing for girls. In my life I once kissed 2girls and the feeling I had was butterflies in my stomach. The only reason I don't wanna come out as to what I am is because every time I would say something about me loving other girls my friends tend to laugh at me and think am joking and I know my parents are never going to accept me for who I am but the love I have for girls :'( ❤

1 year, 2 months ago

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OhSweetStuff

Hey

1 year, 2 months ago
Poorcheesegirl

Hey

1 year, 2 months ago
Anonymous

Hi Emm..Well I have been attracted to boys all my life until last year December when one of my lesbian Friend told me she liked me . Everything changed we talked everyday an i began to notice that I liked her but it confuses me since I have been attracted to boys..Am scared to tell anyone because I have been judged a lot and am scared of people not accepting it ..What can I do cause i really like her

1 year, 2 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

1 year, 1 month ago
Lebogang_20

Hey ❣ see I've been dating this guy for 3yrs now and i really love the guy.. well last year i met this girl from my previous school and we have been chatting since then, and feelings got caught there❤ i told her i have a boyfriend but i still love her and she didn't react very well with it... she told me that she's selfish and doesn't want to share me she just want it to be me and her...i haven't told my boyfriend I'm bisexual because I'm afraid that I'll lose him 😔 i love both of them just that i don't know what to do💔 please help

1 year, 3 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Lebo! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

1 year, 1 month ago
Karabo

Am a bisexual people used to judge at school But am proud to be bisexual 😍😍😍😜

1 year, 3 months ago
Anonymous

Hello I like girls and boys at the same time ,but there is something that seems to confuse me everytime . I am mostly attracted to girls , but in my area everyone says I have disgrace my whole family and the community. I wish I can be as brave as u 💔💔😢😢

1 year, 3 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

1 year, 1 month ago
Anonymous

Hey I like guys and girls but I have never been with a girl before I fantasize about been with a girl but I'm scared the people around me will disapprove of my "sexual preference" What should I do

1 year, 3 months ago

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Anonymous

Hy Anonymous i think its for the best to accept your self as a bisexual and no need to hide your self because people always talk even if you can to good

1 year, 3 months ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

1 year, 1 month ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

1 year, 1 month ago
Anonymous

Wow u took too much courage👑👑💓💓💔💖💖

1 year, 3 months ago
Anonymous

Well I am scared to approach other people with the gender I have it is gay

1 year, 4 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

1 year, 1 month ago
Relebogile
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H.E.S

Okay what i can say is that you really dont have to come out to your parents as yet do not push your self to do it now firsly you need to be independent financially because you dont know what he wii say . Advice see how he reacts about the lgbti people for example what he wii normally say when a gay person apppear on tv.

1 year, 3 months ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Quad! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

1 year, 1 month ago
Oplaycoo

Am also a lesbian. But I'm scared to approach gals. And I'm scared of pple.

1 year, 4 months ago

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Mavun

Oplaycoo you have the "what will people say" syndrome You don't need other people's approval to live your life do as it please you

1 year, 3 months ago
AviweL
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H.E.S

Well you need to do some self introspection as to whether your feelings gravitates more the male or female who do you find more sexually attractive if its both you are definitely bisexual and the is nothing wrong with that

1 year, 3 months ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Aviwe! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

1 year, 1 month ago
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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Tsuni! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

1 year, 1 month ago
S.H.E
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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have removed your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

1 year, 1 month ago
Miyole

I am a lesbian too my life is a mess because some people laugh at me making fun of me but sometimes I just make something that makes me not listen to them such as cleaning I'll never tell my family because they won't understand that I am too attracted to girls.I was never attracted to boys ,I would really like to talk to big sis

1 year, 4 months ago

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H.E.S

Hi love the fact that you know who you are people will keep on talking about you but that should not hold you back from living a happy life and if your still in school don't worry about telling your parents now. Try to hang out around postive people you can trust god loves the way you are.

1 year, 3 months ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

1 year, 1 month ago
BLue_rainbow_kid
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Miyole

That is why I don't want to tell my parents .My parents will be like that too #i support you girl🙏

1 year, 4 months ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Ngwana! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

1 year, 1 month ago