Jimmaxmlt24

My name is jimmax Mlt If u can't dream you cannot make it

3 days, 4 hours ago
THOBSZIORO

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6 days, 21 hours ago
Kota123

I have a problem with my confident every time when I walk to the campus.. I see beautiful girls and she myself as I'm ugly coz lots of ppl will be looking at me...... Please help

1 week, 2 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springfire, we are all beautiful in our own way. You are awesome Springster and you shouldn't doubt that. For some tips to keep your confidence in check please read the article http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/your-confidence-check/

1 week, 2 days ago
Sage

many girls dislike me; I don't kno really when I am

1 week, 3 days ago

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Anonymous

They only dislike you coz you are something else. Its either they want to be you or they want to fit in. Never mind what they think of you just be yourself and also love yourself more than anything.

2 days, 23 hours ago
Anonymous

Inspired 💙

3 weeks, 1 day ago

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Gabi - Moderator

We're soooo happy you're inspired Obakeng07!

3 weeks ago
Anonymous

inspired😊😊

4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Thandow1999, thanks for the comment. Stay inspired Springster!

3 weeks, 6 days ago
unknown

By girls and boy Aaaah I really had a thought that u can make ur self to be accepted first of all u dont allow people to tell u abt ur colour ur size the thing that u could i think u will jyst have to say that who i am and i will not change my sekf for u just stand up and rise abt who u really are

1 month ago
Anonymous

Sometimes for me it is just impossible to ignore people's nasty comments towards me... But this article comes in handy each time I experience that!

1 month, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, we're so glad this article is helping you deal with people's nasty comments. Keep positive Springster!

1 month, 1 week ago
Aluthando

Just believe in yourself and accept who u are and that you won't. change no matter what u try to do. ❤😊

1 month ago
Anonymous

Just believe in yourself and accept who u are and that you won't. change no matter what u try to do. ❤😊

1 month ago
Tecla

Yah galy all of us we are buietyfull

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Thanks for the lovely comment Springster. Yes, we are all beautiful including you!

1 month, 1 week ago
Ladykay3434

Peacefully greetings to you all,I go by the name of Kefiloe but i love calling myself queen kay it just keeps me going. I am new here but i thought i would just share this with y'all. I remember when i was in primary i was so confident and never shy, i would always compete with myself though it was hard. I took many extra mural activities like netball, drama, book quiz, spelling bee, debate and so forth because like i said i loved challenging myself and i never realised that i was actually creating the best in me. Then time came when i had to leave primary, i left with so many awards that i couldn't hold them with my both hands, the feeling was great i can assure you. Trust me after that, life was not that fun and interesting no more it was sad and more challenging that i lost my self confidence,esteem,respect and dignity. I started hanging out with the wrong friends and ended up doing things that i am still not proud of today. Until i tried so hard to change my life and i did even though am not the same great person i was but trust me i changed to be the greatest than ever and the journey was not easy at all. Because of me deciding to change i lost friends and most people lost interest in me due to the person i have decided to become. My life was better and i regained my self confidence, respect, dignity and esteem even worse i became the best person i could ever ask for. I am not saying i am now perfect i still struggle there and there but trust me i always pick up my self at the end of the day because i always remind myself that if i don't stand up for myself then who will? The morale of the story is to never give up, never give people the authority to bring you down, appreciate yourself just the way you are because if you don't no one will, always bring out the best in you and don't forget to pray! It is not going to be easy but once you tell yourself that you can do it trust me you will just don't give up and remember to love and respect yourself in all aspects. Love: Kefiloe

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello Queenkay5656 Firstly welcome to Springster.We are so glad you joined us.Thank you for sharing your story with us.A lot of people will learn from your experience and be able to avoid some of the things.We admire your strength and we believe that it took a lot of courage to write about your experience.Self love is important and on that note we agree with you.Not everyone will like you and you can make everyone like you either.It is better to have friends who are as focused and dedicated as you are than those who will make you do bad things.We hope that you continue to do great things in your life and we support you here at Springster.

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Kefiloe, You are a true queen. 💎👑💎

18 hours, 2 minutes ago
Anonymous

Peacefully greetings to you all,I go by the name of Kefiloe but i love calling myself queen kay it just keeps me going. I am new here but i thought i would just share this with y'all. I remember when i was in primary i was so confident and never shy, i would always compete with myself though it was hard. I took many extra mural activities like netball, drama, book quiz, spelling bee, debate and so forth because like i said i loved challenging myself and i never realised that i was actually creating the best in me. Then time came when i had to leave primary, i left with so many awards that i couldn't hold them with my both hands, the feeling was great i can assure you. Trust me after that, life was not that fun and interesting no more it was sad and more challenging that i lost my self confidence,esteem,respect and dignity. I started hanging out with the wrong friends and ended up doing things that i am still not proud of today. Until i tried so hard to change my life and i did even though am not the same great person i was but trust me i changed to be the greatest than ever and the journey was not easy at all. Because of me deciding to change i lost friends and most people lost interest in me due to the person i have decided to become. My life was better and i regained my self confidence, respect, dignity and esteem even worse i became the best person i could ever ask for. I am not saying i am now perfect i still struggle there and there but trust me i always pick up my self at the end of the day because i always remind myself that if i don't stand up for myself then who will? The morale of the story is to never give up, never give people the authority to bring you down, appreciate yourself just the way you are because if you don't no one will, always bring out the best in you and don't forget to pray! It is not going to be easy but once you tell yourself that you can do it trust me you will just don't give up and remember to love and respect yourself in all aspects. Love: Kefiloe

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello Queenkay5656 Firstly welcome to Springster.We are so glad you joined us.Thank you for sharing your story with us.A lot of people will learn from your experience and be able to avoid some of the things.We admire your strength and we believe that it took a lot of courage to write about your experience.Self love is important and on that note we agree with you.Not everyone will like you and you can make everyone like you either.It is better to have friends who are as focused and dedicated as you are than those who will make you do bad things.We hope that you continue to do great things in your life and we support you here at Springster.

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Ladykay3434

Thank you so much!

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hey guys I cut my hair last month n was the laughing stock of the school i got really nasty comments . i try but i am always embarrassed in front of my crush and he laughs directly at me! I don't want to go to school anymore What should i do?

1 month, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

I'm beautiful!! you knw u are beautiful....don't wait for someone else to tell that .have that confidence ,of that when u look at ur self in the mirror smile and say yoh I'm gorgeous

1 month, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

We love this! Thank you Mishka18!

1 month, 2 weeks ago
NkosazanaKatie

Nothing beats communication, just confront him and ask exactly what his problem is.

1 month, 3 weeks ago
Sammy

Hello , I got so many pimples in my face that refuses to go away . When I look in the mirror it feels like my whole world has fallen down . I have Low self-esteem and have difficulties in building my self to grow and understand myself . I know beauty is within us but whenever I look at my face I feel sad . What should I do ?

1 month, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Shantal, it's so hard being a teenager. Puberty can be rough on us and pimples can be so annoying. We've placed two links in this comment to two articles that might help you with treating pimples. Just copy and paste them in your search browser: http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-body/bye-bye-pimples/ and http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-body/domestic-goddess/ You might also want visit a skin care shop and explain the issue you are having to an assistant or skin care specialists. They will be able to help, but please also remember that pimples are normal at this stage of your life so don't give yourself a hard time about it.

1 month, 3 weeks ago
Riri

I also have that problem😳 it hurts... I can't even take a picture with my friends because I know I won't look good

6 days, 23 hours ago
Anonymous

I'm trying so hard to accept myself the way I am. But being reminded of the features I dislike about myself almost everyday is straining. I have 3 sisters, they are all short just like our mother. And I'm the tallest, about the same height as my dad. They are all shoe size 4 and I'm a size 6. I just feel like I don't belong there and sometimes they make jokes about my appearance... it's just too much. So most of the time I isolate myself from them.

1 month, 4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Springster, it's really important to understand that although looking different is hard, it's really not a bad thing. Some short people wish they were taller and some tall people want to be shorter. We have to remember that it's really important to be comfortable in ourselves and our own bodies. This obviously doesn't happen in an instant and it will be something that will take time. Part of the journey of confidence is being able to surround ourselves with people who understand us and don't make us feel bad about who we are or what we look like. You should consider talking to you loved ones on a deep and honest level by telling them how sensitive you are to their comments and how you are being affected. Maybe they'll understand. Don't forget to get a hold of us again and tell us how everything worked out.

1 month, 3 weeks ago
Favourite

Thanks I know now 😉

1 month, 4 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

No problem favourite, it's our pleasure😉.

1 month, 3 weeks ago
rosh

That is great I'm going to try it

1 month, 4 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hello,Girl one thing you must do you must start believing in yourself and be perfect in your own imperfections.Nobody is perfect and we as human beings we were born with different body shapes from head to toes.I myself have a tiny body,I hear that comment almost everyday that I have a small butt and to me it simply a joke I just laugh at my teasers.Why?First of all I accepted the way I am and having a small butt is nothing to be ashamed of.So don't pay too much attention to them.Hope this might help...

2 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

What a great comment Springster! Thank you :)

2 months ago
Anonymous

hey springsters, I have lack of confidence with my body simply because I feel as though I have a small butt, and people tend to make fun of me because of that. I'm tired of feeling like this. is there any ways to get bigger butt naturally? I'm tired of being teased about my butt. its humiliating. at 18 I think we're supposed to be comfortable with our bodies but for me its impossible :(

2 months ago

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zeti

hy dear it begin's with self acceptance and self appreciation having small butt it does not mean you not beautiful, pleasing ppl won't groom your spirit so dear rise up and tell yourself that you are beautiful than before

2 months ago