Im 14 years old and have a friend who almost had lost her virginity to someone who is in a long term relationship ...as the first person she told i informed the others seeing i did not know what to to..we discussed it as a group with out her and agreed that the less we know the better...but everytime i see her she has a new story...i want to tell her that what she is doing is wrong but i cant...recently i have been acting cold towards her and things have been a little awkward im...im stuck between losing a friend and putting her in the right path...PLEASE HELP!!!
Hi Anonymous, you're a really good friend for being concerned about your friend's actions, but try to remember that you can never push someone to go into a certain direction if it's not part of their plan. Everyone makes their own life decisions and as friends, all we can do is remind them of the consequences of some of the actions they take and let them choose what they want to do. Also, try to remember that our friends come to us so they have someone to talk to about what they're going through. You don't have to support their actions. You can simply take some time to listen and remind them of the possible outcomes of their actions. If listening makes you uncomfortable, you have every right to let your friend know about your values and how you feel. We hope things work out between the two of you.
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